A Man should treat his Lady with, honor. respect, dignity, grace, loyalty, passion, and tenderness. Bring her flowers, candy, cards, and presents. Do everything possible for her to have her me time. Do more for her than he does for himself. Show and tell her how much he loves, adores, and admirers her. Make her laugh, smile, and giggle. Do the unexpected. Tell her how beautiful she is. Be spontaneous at the right time. It's about her needs, desires, wants, and dreams Take his time and make sure she is pleasured first. Weather he gets his or not. Leave the past in the past. Or place blame on anyone if it was his responsibility to do as such. Do whatever, anything, and everything it takes protect her and keep her safe. Don't let anything or anyone stand in his way of his want and devotion for her. Trust her. And above all, treat her as the Goddess she is.
A man should not ever, harm, ridicule, hit, argue, disrespect her, (or the kids), lie, steal, cheat, hide facts, abuse mentally, emotionally, or physically in any way. Call her a liar. Call her rude, vulgar, hateful, hurtful, disgusting, and demeaning names. And above all not ever yell at her or raise his voice in a threatening manner. If she started yelling at him first, it means he gave her a reason to. Which is worse.