Okay.. let's see if you are hiding secret pain? (65)
Zellarrone1: Hi Claayer I think the majority of people are hiding some kind of secret pain/emotional grief.
I've yet to meet someone who can honestly say they have no secret heartaches.
What I don't really understand is when people say you choose to be in pain. We all have bereavements, love split ups and other things that can cause us pain. I don't agree that time neccesarily heals ALL pain either.
I think it heals most of it but we sometimes have to learn to live with the pain that's left... and that part of it is the secret pain
I've yet to meet someone who can honestly say they have no secret heartaches.
What I don't really understand is when people say you choose to be in pain. We all have bereavements, love split ups and other things that can cause us pain. I don't agree that time neccesarily heals ALL pain either.
I think it heals most of it but we sometimes have to learn to live with the pain that's left... and that part of it is the secret pain
I agree ......... time can make some heartaches ease ..... but truly I think that its not the healer, but ourselves facing that pain, acknowledging it, why are we holding onto it and working through it. Does it mean that its erased and gone - I don't believe so .... but simply more bearable for us in the end.
I think that life will always have its share of highs and lows ........ I'd rather be on the ride then standing at the sidelines watching everyone else experiencing it.
I have no pain as of yet...I am happy i have Met The Man that makes me happy...He will be here less then 3 1/2 hours
langleygirl: I agree ......... time can make some heartaches ease ..... but truly I think that its not the healer, but ourselves facing that pain, acknowledging it, why are we holding onto it and working through it. Does it mean that its erased and gone - I don't believe so .... but simply more bearable for us in the end.
I think that life will always have its share of highs and lows ........ I'd rather be on the ride then standing at the sidelines watching everyone else experiencing it.
That's right I think that life will always have its share of highs and lows ........ I'd rather be on the ride then standing at the sidelines watching everyone else experiencing it.
the pain/lows of life all help us appreciate the pleasures of life 
I MAY have clicked on the "dozy bint" by accident thinking it was a compliment!!!!!!!!!!
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found out today that my ex has started a relationship with a mutual friend of ours!!
It hurts, but I dont blame them, to be hionest
They have much more in common than me and she did!!