Yes, I have...many different types of love. My friends, my family, my sons, my pets...and I've been fortunate enough to be loved by a few very special men, and to love them too. The last one of those was taken away all too soon. But I still have plenty of love in my life now.
bingyman: I don't think love is a decision. The commitment is a decision, but love flows natural. Either the connection is the for it to flow, or not, but love is surely not a decision, or is it?
I still love some of my ex-partners who behave towards me in a manner which someone would expect me to hate them, but I can't decide to hate, because I just can't feel the hate...
I agree with you, Bingy...and like you, I just can't feel hate. Disappointment that one who you shared so much love with can act this way, yes. Hate? No.
And no, to me love is not a decision. It just is or isn't.
pretzelman: I who heartedly disagree...Whether to love someone or not is a conscience decision on each other's part! Physical attraction is not a decision...but love is. It's time to step out of the romance novels way of thinking and face reality. If romance novels presented a realistic view of life...they wouldn't sell so much!!
I'll take the legs from some old table I'll take the arms from some old chair I'll take the neck from some old bottle And from a horse I'll get the hair Gonna take the hands and face from off the clock And baby when I am through I'll get more loving from that dum-dum-dummy Than I ever got from you.
jashcd: LOVE is a decision …. That took two people there all life live together with a great feeling inside ,
I think its not easy to get a nice love .. have u ever enjoy love
I had someone love me for a long, long time before I finally realized I loved her. I was late to the "game", but I got there. Each of us travel at different speeds when it comes to love. I knew I like her. I knew I wanted to spend my life with her. I knew I couldn't live without her.
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that is fine just opinion...