to be a second wife:yes or no? (44)

Oct 3, 2009 7:25 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
kanokwan
kanokwankanokwanPetchabun, Northern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
RDM59: Just watch out for him bringing home a new spade .......

Nothing quite like burying your troubles, so they say....
sawadee ka RDM,but is it big headache for man or is it not?to have many wife?same as marry many time over?...i tink many man gluttons for punishment! handshake
Oct 3, 2009 7:54 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
cristina: Because you then think you'll be the last one?


yuppp,and his last will be write on my namerolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing devil
Oct 3, 2009 8:21 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
damo9
damo9damo9canberra, ACT Australia1 Threads 307 Posts
when i decided to get my first few tatoos i nearly had a rose done i was going to get my wifes name done inside the rose with the day we met but something deep inside me said not to and i can see why

i have been told that ther are some women that wil not take on a divorced guy

i am the type off guy that wants to grow old with one women


i have nothing against guys who want up to four wifes its none off my buisness


i am sort of hopping ther is a women out ther that will take me for who i am and if i do get lucky i wil get that rose done on my shoulder with my wifes name and the day we met i have what i want done on my shoulder



my x wifes mother has been married know four times she has a new husband husband number five









damo9
Oct 3, 2009 8:24 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
krisha: yuppp,and his last will be write on my name
Poor himlaugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 3, 2009 8:24 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
friends4now
friends4nowfriends4nowMelbourne, Florida USA73 Threads 10 Polls 2,366 Posts
in islam a man can have up to 4 wives actually. As I understand all 4 have to be treated the same and have the same attention as the others---which is pretty impossible--it is allowed but I don't think it's widely practiced





Not my cup of tea but no problem with it
Oct 3, 2009 8:26 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
friends4now
friends4nowfriends4nowMelbourne, Florida USA73 Threads 10 Polls 2,366 Posts
damo9: when i decided to get my first few tatoos i nearly had a rose done i was going to get my wifes name done inside the rose with the day we met but something deep inside me said not to and i can see why

i have been told that ther are some women that wil not take on a divorced guy

i am the type off guy that wants to grow old with one women i have nothing against guys who want up to four wifes its none off my buisness i am sort of hopping ther is a women out ther that will take me for who i am and if i do get lucky i wil get that rose done on my shoulder with my wifes name and the day we met i have what i want done on my shoulder
my x wifes mother has been married know four times she has a new husband husband number five
damo9



Damo--it's a very big "curse" in the tattoo world


as soon as you tattoo your SO you are bound for a split


I refuse name tattoos unless they have my kids name---no matter what that won't change







to everyone out there--don't tattoo a name you'll regret itgrin
Oct 3, 2009 8:29 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
friends4now: in islam a man can have up to 4 wives actually. As I understand all 4 have to be treated the same and have the same attention as the others---which is pretty impossible--it is allowed but I don't think it's widely practicedNot my cup of tea but no problem with it


Many don't do it because the last word is on the first wife's right. Many parallel families that Islamic men built, is trully based on simple promiscuity-just like it could happen in any part of the globe.
Oct 3, 2009 8:31 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
friends4now
friends4nowfriends4nowMelbourne, Florida USA73 Threads 10 Polls 2,366 Posts
cristina: Many don't do it because the last word is on the first wife's right. Many parallel families that Islamic men built, is trully based on simple promiscuity-just like it could happen in any part of the globe.




very true thanks for your point
Oct 3, 2009 8:34 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
friends4now: very true thanks for your point


cheers
Oct 3, 2009 8:53 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
damo9
damo9damo9canberra, ACT Australia1 Threads 307 Posts
friends4now: Damo--it's a very big "curse" in the tattoo world as soon as you tattoo your SO you are bound for a splitI refuse name tattoos unless they have my kids name---no matter what that won't change

to everyone out there--don't tattoo a name you'll regret it








hi friends4now



thanks i stil have the picture in my folder a friend of mine drew this for me i told him exactly what i wanted done i have enough room on my arms or shoulder

i am though geting one done soon with my sons name and i memory of a son i burried with my first wife its been playing on me for a while know to do it i have the money and i am going to go to the guy that done my first few tatoos



i did not relize once you put your wifes name on your body it causes a split i guess what ever was telling me not to it some how sunk threw i would know be stuck with her name and no way wil i get it errased by going under laser surgery


a guy i knew had this done an employment agency helped with the cost he was long term unemployed and he realy wanted a job but no one would hire him so he was told ther is a way around it the employment agency got right behind him he looks diffrent but you can see where the lasser went over his tatoos


me mine are with me for life i tend to get a big eagle done on my back and have the desgine i want

thanks friend4now how long have you had your tatoo a female friend has the same one as you do







damo9
Oct 3, 2009 9:07 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
damo9
damo9damo9canberra, ACT Australia1 Threads 307 Posts
its the same rule with a women having up to 5 husbands the first husband has rights over the other 4 husbands when i did my research on polygomy and why men want so many wifes and then reading on women also having up to 5 husbands it daunted on me

the first wife has the final say and the first wife has rights to the husbands will and his property


a dude came up on a current affair in australia he had up to 9 wifes and a lot off kids the 9 wifes were all working together he was asked were the money comes for food he said he works two jobs the guy was not a smal guy he was a big dude i looked at the women and they were al good looking women but he was not that good looking



dont do it its not worth the hassel and it causes friction the first wife has to agree before the husband even brings in the second wife and its the same the first and second wife have to agree


i watched this show on sbs in australia on a mormen sect it came on every saturday night he moved his wifes and kids out of the compound into a suburb brought out a store and brought three houses they were next to each other he had a hard job keeping it on the hush the second wife lived in the house next to his and the third wife lived next to the second wife


she nearly blew it a neighbour invited her to a church service introduced her to one of her singl male friends he was intrested in her and her kids he was on the look out for wife 4 a good serious based on joesph smiths teachings







damo9
Oct 3, 2009 9:27 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
friends4now
friends4nowfriends4nowMelbourne, Florida USA73 Threads 10 Polls 2,366 Posts
damo9:

thanks friend4now how long have you had your tatoo a female friend has the same one as you do

damo9



which one friend??


my B i just got and will probably be my last--the guy that did it was awful and now its infected

once its really healed i will have to have it touched up a bit because it's discolored
Oct 3, 2009 10:02 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
to be a second wife:yes or no?



doh I have not been a first wife yet tongue
Oct 3, 2009 11:18 AM CST to be a second wife:yes or no?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Poll Question: to be a second wife:yes or no?
Poller: whiteswon

You're replying to post made by: whiteswon

Boban1: no disrespect meant
but what do you mean ???

..whan muslim men have two wifes


Grossly unfair! I protest in the name of any and all Muslim women who would like to have 2 or more husbands! (There are rich Muslim women who can afford 2 or more husbands...where is a poll for them...rolling on the floor laughing

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