Would you dump a person if they would not have children for you... (41)
irish1978eyes: I thought ya wanted two men there ya pup
No I think thats another thread entirely
irish1978eyes: I thought ya wanted two men there ya pup
hmmm
i want a kid or two but if my g/f at the time does not its bye bye
Graham
Graham
Crazylegs: hmmm
Ok ok ok...spill then who are your two...
and they gotta be from the forums
irish1978eyes: Ok ok ok...spill then who are your two...
and they gotta be from the forums
and they gotta be from the forums
Does a jar of nutella count as the second person ????
ladylumps: Does a jar of nutella count as the second person ????
Not unless you get the same pleasure from a jar of Nutella than micheal Buble...so Im guessing your answer is Michael???
irish1978eyes: Not unless you get the same pleasure from a jar of Nutella than micheal Buble...so Im guessing your answer is Michael???
Oh yeah that goes with out saying but there are a few closer to home that shall remain nameless
ladylumps: Oh yeah that goes with out saying but there are a few closer to home that shall remain nameless
Mmmmmmmm Interesting...spilllllllllllllllllllllll
irish1978eyes: Mmmmmmmm Interesting...spilllllllllllllllllllllll
ah now that would be telling
Spartan88: Its a stivky one to answer this- everyone has their own opinion on whats the right or wrong thing to do, and we can all respect thier choices.
Personally, I'd say 'no'. If they say they dont want children, it should not be taken personally. You need to step back and listen to thier reasoning. They may just simply feel a child is something that they cant cope with at this stage in thier lives, or they may have had children from a previous relationship and have been through a lot- now they just want to enjoy watching the kids grow but not face raising a family from scratch again, which one must respect. Its not a reflection on you, maybe, in time, thier feeling on the matter may change.
Thing is, in time, if you grow to love the person, you will
grow to love the kids. Ok, so they may not biologically be your own, but they may love you just as much as if they were and you them.
Again, this is just my opinion.
Personally, I'd say 'no'. If they say they dont want children, it should not be taken personally. You need to step back and listen to thier reasoning. They may just simply feel a child is something that they cant cope with at this stage in thier lives, or they may have had children from a previous relationship and have been through a lot- now they just want to enjoy watching the kids grow but not face raising a family from scratch again, which one must respect. Its not a reflection on you, maybe, in time, thier feeling on the matter may change.
Thing is, in time, if you grow to love the person, you will
grow to love the kids. Ok, so they may not biologically be your own, but they may love you just as much as if they were and you them.
Again, this is just my opinion.
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I thought ya wanted two men there ya pup