chris27292729: What about this.... Both around 50 and married a couple decades, for a 50 year old man,his wife is older than his 39 years old secretery, who is trying to get him to bed,and surely she wiil.-
It's called lust..and lack of self control. It's all a stroke to an older mans ego..and for the younger woman..security with an oler man..called "father syndrome"..but why are you asking me.. ..what the hell do I know ..or care..
"" young people wanting to be my friends"", Not "wanting" they are my friends. And "courting" or " date my son " it was a humorous note.
Vio80: what??? If I talk to someone, that does not mean I am courting him/her :) That's ridiculous.
And words about youthful behavior were written for author of poll.
About young people wanting to be your friends. That is so greek. I spent two summers in Greek islands (Rhodes, Symi and Halki). I was also very friendly with a man who was almost 70 I think. He was wise, he was full of love to his island, to Greece, and life in general. He traveled a lot in his life, he lived in US for long time, he returned to Greece leaving prosperous life, and began everything from scratch. Of course you want to be friends with a man like this. And all islanders were his friends. Everyone liked him. And if you also know how greeks respect older people. But I never even thought about him like a man whom I could date. He was 15 years older than my father :)) How could I?
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
Experience will win hands down for me everytime. So if a miracle occurs and somebody sets my radar lights off and they explode, well they aint going to be too much younger than myself.
Quite right who cares,if a marriage or reletionship does not last,because of lust.
nanners2863: It's called lust..and lack of self control. It's all a stroke to an older mans ego..and for the younger woman..security with an oler man..called "father syndrome"..but why are you asking me.. ..what the hell do I know ..or care..
mossopwWest Midlands, Herefordshire, England UK194 posts
Come on people lets face fact......Most of us are looking for someone younger so we all run around in never ending circles apart from the few I have seen on here who go to far off lands to find what they want ! Why do you think dating sites are full of somewhat older people..........Way of the World and as for females not wanting to date older guys the USA followed by the UK top the list in polls.
llcindc: Since I am a kid at heart and 52 yrs old, I have a problem dating women near my age because MOST are either out of shape or act like a MOTHER (Clearly there are exceptions, I just haven't been that lucky). So I am trying to understand what the issue is dating younger women.
Most women your age probably are Mother's hence that is why they act like a Mother....
You need to clarify the issue you are putting forward here...
All of us entitled to ""speak about stupid,hypothetical situations" i did not wanted you to have the monopoly. A gentleman,always a gentleman, Ladies first.
nanners2863: It is true..it's the same University that asked you to speak about stupid, hypothetical situations..
chris27292729: All of us entitled to ""speak about stupid,hypothetical situations" i did not wanted you to have the monopoly. A gentleman,always a gentleman, Ladies first.
rytcharlieprovincia di Lodi, Lombardy Italy1,412 posts
Vio80: I am sorry to disappoint you, but most young woman who date older men, want their money, status, or just some other things he has. Really sorry about this, but it's true. Very few women really like to date 20 or more years older men. I don't deny that most older men are wise, and more likely to be real gentleman, and they know many interesting stories to tell, many places to show. But those who try to act if they are still young and energetic as boys are so not good looking. You should have this in mind and concentrate not on your youthful appearance and behavior (because you will never look younger than young men:)) but on positive things that come with age: wisdom, patience, intelligence and etc. And date women who are capable to value these features. There are plenty of them. But if woman likes older men, she likes not that youthfulness you are trying to show...
makes me glad I've got nothing - sometimes we dont know how lucky we are
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
llcindc: Since I am a kid at heart and 52 yrs old, I have a problem dating women near my age because MOST are either out of shape or act like a MOTHER (Clearly there are exceptions, I just haven't been that lucky). So I am trying to understand what the issue is dating younger women.
Are you talking the reality world bud or these dating sites ?
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
A person should date who they please,everyone is different..depends if you are in it for the long hall or just to have fun,Me i want someone that has the same tastes as me,we can talk and understand each other in and out of bed....
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