Swissblueeyes: I had a friend who would get mad if her current boyfriend wouldnt call her 3 times a day..She also planned events for every free day he had off of work..he ran like hell out of that relationship after only two months..I think people need their alone time as well as time together to make a healthy relationship..
Wow, that's obsessive. We all need ME TIME. Unfortunately she didn't give herself any ME TIME either.
Faithfulness: Poller: sasyecatsEvery hour, on the hour Daily, call and text Once a day, call or text Every other day is fine Every two days works for me Whenever works fine for me
None of these are options if your significant other is your spouse.
getcarter: Wow, that's obsessive. We all need ME TIME. Unfortunately she didn't give herself any ME TIME either.
True.. I tried to give her advise but she would never listen..That girl had more ex boyfriends than a girlscout has cookies.. Some people never learn i guess.
Swissblueeyes: True.. I tried to give her advise but she would never listen..That girl had more ex boyfriends than a girlscout has cookies.. Some people never learn i guess.
I'm sorry I didn't read your whole reply. What was it about some girls cookies? My bad.
sasyecats: Hi Larry Guess I should have added very, very early in a relationship.
Did not mean for this to turn into about me...just wanted to show why I was asking.
Both my situations weren't even a month old, one wanted to dive in, he even talked of living together and marriage, and he was only separated...not even divorced yet...the other had burned me many times before... now can people see why I wanted to take things slow in both cases?...and yes I did tell them I wanted to take it slow. Sometimes we communicate, but people only hear what they want to hear..
I have found that I want no part of someone who is separated, it causes many bad things, so If they are Separated or Freshly divoriced, I dont have much interest, as life has taught me a few things along the way... and slow is the way, in the beginning, it takes time, tho also must let them know you have Interest, and they feel Wanted... Not comunicating shows opposite.... So many people feel No call,No Interest, and Move on...so at this stage their needs to be Balance, dont ring their phone 10 times a day, but dont skip days not calling either... Balance is the best word I have..
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Wow, that's obsessive. We all need ME TIME. Unfortunately she didn't give herself any ME TIME either.