why do woman have to be so judgemental (207)

May 25, 2011 7:05 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
SummerUK: You nutter!!!
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May 25, 2011 7:06 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
SummerUK: Where is the actual line between being judgmental and having preferences??

People who are judgemental get right on my nerves. I'm talking about people who for example will look down on a homeless person, assuming they are there because of their own doing or that they are second class citizens. Same with drug addicts... how do we know that if we had led the life they had, that we wouldn't end up being drug addicts too?

but

For example: If I say I'd rather 'date' someone who is fairly fit and active because I like to ride, hike, swim etc Does that make me judgemental if I turn down the offer of a date from someone who is very very overweight and can't move very much and doesn't intend to?

I'd hate to think of myself being judgmental but its my life and Ive been through some very traumatic events, I have a good idea of the way I'd like it to go in the future... Does it make me judgemental if a few people don't fit into that future?? Blimey that was a bit of a waffle innit!!!!


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May 25, 2011 7:06 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
SummerUK: Ya know I was thinking that the other day... Mine was irritating me so I took it off and thought.. why the heck do we wear these things anyway???

Brainwashing from being 13 yrs old
Personally, I think they are the most unattractive item of clothing a woman wears

Yeah let those puppies breath yay
May 25, 2011 7:07 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
EagleWoman: Yeah!!! He wants to be my canvass!!!
Crikey moses, you using paint or chocolate?? laugh

Hi hon wave Love your new pic... very pretty bouquet
May 25, 2011 7:10 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
almera03: Personally, I think they are the most unattractive item of clothing a woman wears

Yeah let those puppies breath
I was being truthful when I said I'd thought about it.. I mean Why???? dunno laugh


I think they're very pretty personally but who for? Men? Ok yeah I understand that but I don't have one so why am I still wearing it? laugh
May 25, 2011 7:11 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
EagleWoman: Oh!! Yeah!!! But not at the same time as I'm painting Dr Bombay if you don't mind
laughNo way am i flashing my crudentials in front of him. snooty
May 25, 2011 7:13 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
EagleWoman: Canvassing for being my virgin canvass
that paint,s a pretty..picture....then...laugh writing when.in spain watch out for woman with painted bottoms.....blushing grin grin comfort laugh
May 25, 2011 7:14 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Crikey moses, you using paint or chocolate?? Depends how many times I get to do it!! daydream Why limit ourselves? laugh


SummerUK: Hi hon Love your new pic... very pretty


Thanks Summer ... bouquet
May 25, 2011 7:16 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
EagleWoman: Oh!! Yeah!!! But not at the same time as I'm painting Dr Bombay if you don't mind
TY-would it be ok if I lay on my stomach to show my best feature....rolling on the floor laughing hug wine
May 25, 2011 7:19 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
time4fun4u: No way am i flashing my crudentials in front of him.
little...things like that....would,nt deter..me.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 25, 2011 7:19 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
SummerUK: Where is the actual line between being judgmental and having preferences??

People who are judgemental get right on my nerves. I'm talking about people who for example will look down on a homeless person, assuming they are there because of their own doing or that they are second class citizens. Same with drug addicts... how do we know that if we had led the life they had, that we wouldn't end up being drug addicts too?

but

For example: If I say I'd rather 'date' someone who is fairly fit and active because I like to ride, hike, swim etc Does that make me judgemental if I turn down the offer of a date from someone who is very very overweight and can't move very much and doesn't intend to?

I'd hate to think of myself being judgmental but its my life and Ive been through some very traumatic events, I have a good idea of the way I'd like it to go in the future... Does it make me judgemental if a few people don't fit into that future?? Blimey that was a bit of a waffle innit!!!!
Please read my post on pg.3-TY for your cooperation....laugh hug wine
May 25, 2011 7:19 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
trueheart1941: that paint,s a pretty..picture....then... when.in spain watch out for woman with painted bottoms.....



hmmm Do you tnink I should dump painting kid's faces on sundays and up grade to painting men's bums (to match the women laugh ) ?
May 25, 2011 7:23 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
time4fun4u: No way am i flashing my crudentials in front of him.
I don't want to know but are you sure you have credentials....rolling on the floor laughing handshake cheers
May 25, 2011 7:25 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
drbombay: TY-would it be ok if I lay on my stomach to show my best feature....


Sorry, I am afraid the canvass doesn't get to choose which way round it's gonna be painted ... the artist has to decide which feature needs to be emphasized rolling on the floor laughing
May 25, 2011 7:26 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
SummerUK: I think your title should read

'Why do 'People' have to be so judgemental' PEOPLE!!!

Women do not have the monopoly on that basic human fault


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and I'm saying no moredoh
May 25, 2011 7:30 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
EagleWoman: Do you tnink I should dump painting kid's faces on sundays and up grade to painting men's bums (to match the women ) ?
hmmm good point...that.....i would bend over backwards....to help you.....in your quest....things are looking .........up..............rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 25, 2011 7:31 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
Annoying
AnnoyingAnnoyingSaigon, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam5 Threads 847 Posts
kiwi65: why do woman have to be so judgemental bout what a guy looks like or if he has money or not if u like a guy u should go for whats inside not on the outside


why do men have to be so judgemental ? dunno
May 25, 2011 7:31 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
drbombay: Come & find out-there's plenty of room at the hotel closet Bombay(sounds like a song).....
Love that song daydream

I'm a bit scared of closets though uh oh


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May 25, 2011 7:33 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
EagleWoman: Crikey moses, you using paint or chocolate?? Depends how many times I get to do it!! Why limit ourselves?

Thanks Summer ...
Dats true professor Yes why limit ourselves indeed!!

The sky is the limit peace peace
May 25, 2011 7:36 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
woops did I promise to shut up?hole
May 25, 2011 7:39 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
TallPete
TallPeteTallPeteSutton, Surrey, England UK11 Threads 2 Polls 206 Posts
trueheart1941: then why...?? dont someone invent....something to stop men sagging....y..fronts dont help.........


They did, it comes in a little blue pill rolling on the floor laughing
May 25, 2011 7:41 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
drbombay: Please read my post on pg.3-TY for your cooperation....
I did as I was instructed and read it innocent

I still don't think having preferences about the kind of person you want permernantly in your life is being judgemental though. I do try really hard Not to judge people although I'm sure sometimes I fail mumbling The important thing is that I try


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May 25, 2011 7:41 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
TallPete: They did, it comes in a little blue pill
hi...P.....i,m color....blind.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 25, 2011 7:43 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: and I'm saying no more
Eh??? whad I say??? confused Why you slappin yer heed???

Its not like you to shut up that easily laugh
May 25, 2011 7:43 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
EagleWoman: Sorry, I am afraid the canvass doesn't get to choose which way round it's gonna be painted ... the artist has to decide which feature needs to be emphasized
Ok but can you adjust your strokes on small canvas.....rolling on the floor laughing wine
May 25, 2011 7:48 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
drbombay: Ok but can you adjust your strokes on small canvas.....


rolling on the floor laughing Was gonna add something to my post about brush strokes then decided not to rolling on the floor laughing
May 25, 2011 7:48 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
SummerUK: I did as I was instructed and read it

I still don't think having preferences about the kind of person you want permernantly in your life is being judgemental though. I do try really hard Not to judge people although I'm sure sometimes I fail The important thing is that I try
I absolutely agree about being with that special someone-I was speaking in general terms and I feel who am I to judge anyone but we all have shortcomings at times...hug bouquet wine
May 25, 2011 7:48 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
SummerUK: Well I want my bloody money back cos they didn't work

They're not quite tickling my knees yet but they're not the same as when I was 21 either
dont woorry summer....you have my support........wow wow wow grin grin grin never let a girl down yet.......wink wink
May 25, 2011 7:49 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
almera03: Your welcome

Men don't glare, we admire, big difference
You obviously haven't accompanied a woman to France.... Frenchmen glare...trust me uh oh laugh


Ok before someone jumps on me 'MOST' ok 'MOST' grin
May 25, 2011 7:50 AM CST why do woman have to be so judgemental
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
SummerUK: Well I want my bloody money back cos they didn't work

They're not quite tickling my knees yet but they're not the same as when I was 21 either



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Nor are mine ... but mine aren't big enough to be affected by gravity doh

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