SummerUK: Where is the actual line between being judgmental and having preferences??
People who are judgemental get right on my nerves. I'm talking about people who for example will look down on a homeless person, assuming they are there because of their own doing or that they are second class citizens. Same with drug addicts... how do we know that if we had led the life they had, that we wouldn't end up being drug addicts too?
but
For example: If I say I'd rather 'date' someone who is fairly fit and active because I like to ride, hike, swim etc Does that make me judgemental if I turn down the offer of a date from someone who is very very overweight and can't move very much and doesn't intend to?
I'd hate to think of myself being judgmental but its my life and Ive been through some very traumatic events, I have a good idea of the way I'd like it to go in the future... Does it make me judgemental if a few people don't fit into that future?? Blimey that was a bit of a waffle innit!!!!
SummerUK: Ya know I was thinking that the other day... Mine was irritating me so I took it off and thought.. why the heck do we wear these things anyway???
Brainwashing from being 13 yrs old
Personally, I think they are the most unattractive item of clothing a woman wears
SummerUK: Where is the actual line between being judgmental and having preferences??
People who are judgemental get right on my nerves. I'm talking about people who for example will look down on a homeless person, assuming they are there because of their own doing or that they are second class citizens. Same with drug addicts... how do we know that if we had led the life they had, that we wouldn't end up being drug addicts too?
but
For example: If I say I'd rather 'date' someone who is fairly fit and active because I like to ride, hike, swim etc Does that make me judgemental if I turn down the offer of a date from someone who is very very overweight and can't move very much and doesn't intend to?
I'd hate to think of myself being judgmental but its my life and Ive been through some very traumatic events, I have a good idea of the way I'd like it to go in the future... Does it make me judgemental if a few people don't fit into that future?? Blimey that was a bit of a waffle innit!!!!
Please read my post on pg.3-TY for your cooperation....
drbombay: TY-would it be ok if I lay on my stomach to show my best feature....
Sorry, I am afraid the canvass doesn't get to choose which way round it's gonna be painted ... the artist has to decide which feature needs to be emphasized
kiwi65: why do woman have to be so judgemental bout what a guy looks like or if he has money or not if u like a guy u should go for whats inside not on the outside
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
drbombay: Please read my post on pg.3-TY for your cooperation....
I did as I was instructed and read it
I still don't think having preferences about the kind of person you want permernantly in your life is being judgemental though. I do try really hard Not to judge people although I'm sure sometimes I fail The important thing is that I try
EagleWoman: Sorry, I am afraid the canvass doesn't get to choose which way round it's gonna be painted ... the artist has to decide which feature needs to be emphasized
Ok but can you adjust your strokes on small canvas.....
I still don't think having preferences about the kind of person you want permernantly in your life is being judgemental though. I do try really hard Not to judge people although I'm sure sometimes I fail The important thing is that I try
I absolutely agree about being with that special someone-I was speaking in general terms and I feel who am I to judge anyone but we all have shortcomings at times...
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