leedie Blog Comments (3)

RE: Life's too short ! ! !

well, i am 'having' 6 guys that are really nice
one to talk to
one because he is an old lover and still nice....after 30 years
one because he is an new lover and very young..and beautiful..
one because...he is very good in bed..he just turns me on..
one because..he might be the best partner ever...
and one because he is so very smart...and 'normal' a sweet person..that he might be a healthy relationship.
one because he is interesting and intelligent...something touches my soul..

i could have ....every week one of them?

or no-one?

because life without them is good too...

or devide my time in men- less time and 'together-time'?
keep on trying what feels the best?
young,old, experienced, complex, straight...try it all?

in the meantime...just living..get it all...together??

RE: Infidelity

'agape' is just for the very very matured, grown- up and wise people. exeptions.

people who have enough basic self-respect and self-acceptence, who are not dependent of some-one elses fidelity.

these men/women are very rare.

people who want the other one to be happy, without checking pro's and con's, without asking something back. and still respect their own boundaries and limitations.

it is to be able to give rather than take..you have got to 'have' some, to be able to give..

strange enough most people are full of 'agape' with their mouth...but in everyday life...they practice something else. the small ego (or big? which is in fact small) is easily damaged. because it was never healthy..

films, books and songs..cry out about love and passion.
but; real love is quiet, peaceful..its harmony in the heart.

i myself am not one of the lucky few, but at least I'm aware of that..can laugh at it...which leads me a littlebit in that direction.

RE: despair

its better to have loved and be betrayed....then to have never loved at all!!

so forget all of the thinking and follow your instincts