Those men are the wrong men. yes, good men, and women, are few and far between to find. A good man, is one who is not shallow and gives without regret. He isn't greedy with his money, but thinks of his lady in all purchases made concerning her, not mindless purchasing. When he can go the extra mile for her, she may just have found that Mr. Right! Of course, the same goes for women as well. A good couple will find the partner is worth every penny spent and appreciate each others assets.
As a woman who understand emotions, you need to give her up. She isn't the one for you, at least for the time being. She doesn't even know who she is yet, and she is trying to figure that out right now. She isn't feeling you are the one for her and she probably wants to keep in search of the one who may be her match. You can't let you emotions rule you because they cant be believed all of the time. Often they will deceive you. Be stronger and in control of them, don't let your feelings control you. This is from a woman who use to live by my emotions. They now live by me, so i can make better judgement calls, and even when it does't work out with a man, I am never in danger of heartache. i take it a step at a time and wait and see where things go. Rushing and letting heart strings get pulled every which way isn't going to get you anywhere. Another thing, I dated a man somewhat like you, and I was totally turned off to his emotions, as some women are. If she is passive like me, she may be feeling the same way. I am turned on to men who rule their emotions, and are in control of them. I feel safer that way and secure within the relationship, even if it ends up not going anywhere. Strength lies within oneself, not the heart or any other emotional place.
One thing, u r very young. i use to be very shy too, but as i grew older, I grew more stable in my thinking concerning myself. Confidence over-rules shyness. you are not confident enough in who u r. it comes with experience and determination to change into something better in life. You should post a picture with substance and write more about urself. Force urself to do it. Pretend u r soemthing u normally aren't. Before you know it, you are that person. Takes time and practice and belief in urself. often, past experiences make us shyer, such as in my case. I fought to over come it all, but I didn't know this stuff til I was much older than u r now. learn while u r young. It is a great gift to get over the shyness, for anyone!
I do and don't. I believe in the personality part of it all, but if a person has grown to a greater maturity outside of the negative aspects, then signs can be taken out of the equation. I dated many types of my compatible signs, but they didn't pan-out. I have connected with others outside my sign, but they weren't mature enough for me. It all depends on the maturity of a person and how much they have learned from their life experiences. Don't give up on anyone because of their sign, even if it's your ex's sign. You never know who you are passing up. I am a cancer and didn't like what i saw in myself. I worked on changing for the better and realized how stupid i use to be. I am more in control of my emotions and so forth. Growth is important. Base a possible relationship on the conversation and abilities of a prospective partner. If she is shallow, small talker, selfish and only thinks about herself, then move one. That occurs in every zodiac sign. I will say, that often, 2 compatibles are a match from the zodiac and often find themselves together, but many of my good friends who have been married a long time, are totally not zodiac compatible, but beat the odds. Why, because their relationship is mature and built on actual love, nothing more, nothing less.
I am a woman, and know that I am complexed, but because i know it, i try to watch myself with men, most of the time, unless Im trying to get him out of my way, so-to-speak! I have 2 daughters, and they are more difficult to deal with than my sons, and I am a female. Go figure! My women friends all say the same as I do about their kids. Men are less complicated, but it does have a lot to do with the fact that we use our emotions a lot, and men don't, or at least not that same way a woman does. That is a mystery for men, as well as for women once they themselves understand it. I learned a lot over the years. Have to say that it is not easy trying to be non emotional and stay true to being a woman when Im with a man. It is a job and sometimes exhausting. We were created this way, so please guys, give us a break! lol
if the opportunity is not given, then it hasn't arrived, that is from the right person. I understand what you mean very much so. Not easy to understand, but worth searching and waiting for, because in the process, you will grow in mature loving ways. Im 45 and see that in myself. im more aware about everything, even when Im trying to turn a man off from me. lol
Im 45 and you are a very wise woman. You learned the hard way, but at least you learned. It's actually the best way to learn. The best men are the ones that you can just chat, email, text, talk on the phone or write letters with. if they can hold onto patience and persevere for your affections, then you have a better catch, even before meeting. You can learn a great deal this way, and at the same time, grow as a person and watch for any red flags before getting your heart torn again. There are good, great men, they, like women are to the honest men, are hard to find!
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Those men are the wrong men. yes, good men, and women, are few and far between to find. A good man, is one who is not shallow and gives without regret. He isn't greedy with his money, but thinks of his lady in all purchases made concerning her, not mindless purchasing. When he can go the extra mile for her, she may just have found that Mr. Right! Of course, the same goes for women as well. A good couple will find the partner is worth every penny spent and appreciate each others assets.