Bambiena I don't know this guy so I can't really judge him but if he is the way you describe, maybe you need to move on with your life. Whatever you decide, Good Luck!!
Just make sure you don't rush to get married because your lonely because that's when your looking for trouble making fast decisions without thinking it over.
Cat I work in the healthcare at an assistant living facility for the elderly. These people should be sued for negligence, I also agree that they should be held liable, your dealing with human beings.
RE: How much hate are we carrying?
@Bajan- I hope your having a nice day too!!