This Crazy Internet Dating Thing

I've perused dating sites before, a about 5 years ago I decided to give up on them because I mostly encounter attempted scammers or fake female profiles designed to allure naïve men onto 'sexy' (not so) webcam sights. I did make a couple of real friends I'm still in contact with, but never met anyone to actually go on a date with.
Not long after I stopped using them, I ended up in a relationship anyway, which mutually ended two years ago; since then I've had a few girlfriends but nothing that's lasted more than a year; so I've come back, to see if much has changed; has it?
What are peoples experiences with this site? I've so far found a lot of Women are quite aloof, (I noticed that before too, or maybe that's just the English ones? confused ) I know to a certain extend that may partly be because of the dynamics of how Men and Women treat these places differently; (i.e. Men chase a lot more), but still, are you all having a good time here?
Happy days to you all (& don't be nasty)
wave
K
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Hi I have made a lot of good friends on here and met some very nice people!You still have the weeds mixed in with the flowers!But welcome.handshake wave cheers
I think that's a bit of a blanket statement Danieldunno
@Raven- Just saying from what I've experienced
dunno dunno
May you have better luck this time around.

Happy days to you too wave
Online dating is as good/bad as any other way of meeting people. but dont forget the real life also...

Good luck!cheers
I joined this site about 6weeks ago...I have tried others..but this is one of the better ones...not met anyone..but enjoy reading the blogs and sometimes. ( like now!) joining in..so I'm going to just stay here for a while and see what happens..I but the people on the blogs seem really nice and good fun ...cheering
Well hello Dolly pleased to meet you!wave conversing
Good luck to you KMS123. I hope you find what you looking for this time. As the others say, the blog is a good place to spend time. Have fun and let your hair down.teddybear handshake
Yes, I have been on this site now for a a couple years and only have one true friend. Other than that, I just chat along in blogs and read what others are up to.
I've met men over this site who didn't even know what the blogs and forums were giggle which enforces my feeling that they're for non-seller "LADENHUETER"
Hi K. cool , I guess you are person who easily socializes. just by showing presence in clubs playing music. So the online dating thing could be a bit weird for you, as it takes some time to meet a woman who is interested. Imagine you go to grocery, you won´t date all the women buying cabbage there, would you?
Irony is a good thing, but in your search criteria you should be serious, and not puzzle about the zodiac of your woman, if you don´t take this serious. Anybody adressed by you, would have to give an answer and may feel uncomfortable to discuss it. There should be something catchy to tell a woman, yeah, he means me, not a remarkable play with words. Okay, i don´t want to write a comment longer than the blog. Wishing you good luck. thumbs up
Only hyper tragic mentals that it is not worth to count anything of so far.
..hey friend,
Wish you all the best,
May your heart desires
come true. just hold on,
stay put, one day someones
smiling ansd shining at you.
God bless,
Thanks for all the advice & comments, very kind of you all.

The peculiar thing about being a performer is expectations, people have very distinct expectations of me, in a sense, yes, I do socialise easily, but for me that's part of the job, back at home on my own, I'm really quite a laid back, quiet person, I used to be quite shy & self concious & I got into music as a way of dealing with it, I'd never of guessed it would become a potential career! Consequently I'm not really interested in meeting a partner that way, besides, 'pub' dates aren't my thing, I'd rather take a walk on a beach & eat chips & ice-cream, (that's fries in American I think)?, not together obviously! Ha

There are few absolutes, but as a process of expanding my 'pool' of people to meet & know, this seems to be a good place, or canny; as we Mackems say.

I was at a very dear friends funeral yesterday, a sad day, (they can't always be happy after all can they? No matter how hard we try), so it was very pleasant to see genuine peoples responses on here today, thanks again folks.

Kx
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