Thanks to one and all for all the good advice and instructions. It does look as tho its obvious to 'weigh' the “pro et contra” as Lukeon suggested. Main fact of the matter is that most members all seem to be having some fun and success like African_Single reports, and that's important. Guess I'll stick around for awhile.
Although I am new on this dating site and have followed most of the interesting blogs for a long time now I do think that zmountainman and Jarred both have valid points that makes a lot of sense. I certainly would not like to communicate with a ghost.
RE: Honesty
How would you guys know for sure if that was a fake photo, could she not be a 'lookalike'? I'm just curious.