Is there an etiquette of Blogging

Is Ageism, Racism's younger more acceptable little brother.

I have noticed on a few occasions this little fellow raise his head on a few blogs, and seem to go unnoticed.
This is a dating site, and no doubt it has its share of
Lecherous leerers and creepy cougars prowling about. That's all about Personal choice. And for the most part I see decent people going about the routine of blogging and posting on forums. Sure you get people who cant agree to disagree but that's just harmless human nature. But when it comes to the crunch who has got and who has not the right to be here.

New People to the online dating scene regardless of age may create false profiles for fear of being seen by peers from
work, College, or just out and about in general. The simple fact you have a false profile or multiple profiles should never be an issue. The only thing We should be concerned with is the use of a Profile. How its used to meet and greet others online. What I really want to say is we are all of us never transparent and 100% honest in room with strangers are we ?
The same argument may be used for those without Photos. If your not comfortable doing it don't.
As for those Placing a False Photo on your profile, It is a very Silly thing to do if your not in the business of trolling.
and you will be called and caught on it at some stage. !

Do You remember your first time entering the New world of online singles I imagine it was a daunting step ?
I remember mine and I must say I would liken it to standing on an edge of a pier about to plunge into the dark cold winter sea.
I mean you know you chose a safe spot to do it,
but there will still be shock as you enter.
Fake Profiles are I would suppose a way in which we can test the water. I know this Because I thought about doing it when I started. But I swim quite a bit and have never been a toe dipper I prefer to instantly jump in. So I can tell for your pleasure or disbelief that I have blogged with this and no other Profile since taking the plunge. But hey that's just the way I do things.

Do you think Every one has a right to be here even your Ex should they decide to show up. ?
Do you think We need more border patrol's and Gestapo style checkpoints on CS, I don't think so. And I hate this cold war espionage stuff too.
Just blog and be happy. That's my motto. And if you do think it necessary to run security checks then try to be discreet It puts people on edge.
I believe everybody has a right to be here Unhindered and unharmed. And as in reality Talk should never be swapped for Violence, On the blogs we should never use our words as tool of demoralization.

As I like to quote
"BE EXCELLENT TO EACH OTHER"
-Bill n Ted-
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Comments (84)

Im all for that Boban laugh
Personally I think CS being a dating & blogging site causes a few problems, whilst as you say why worry about a bloggers profile but when it comes to dating who wants to be chatting with a figment of someone's imagination, hardly going to lead to a serious relationship if the person doesn't exist in "Real" life.

Bob, laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh thumbs up
my friend it is good what you write about this I stay here think 3 years dunno . I stay for fun. I write for fun. not for hurt someone. if someone don t like it what I write. I don t care you can ignore easy. and yes this is a free site for everyone. but what another write or doing its up too them if I like a blog I jump in if not I ignore easy for me. cause whe are not all the same. if you want make a good site the best way is close it all. cheers
scold " Howdy My NonSmok! This is a nice blog. Thank you kindly! rolling on the floor laughing Hey! . . Step away, from the window. Slowly!. . .
but remind if you close your computer all is gone don t worries cheers laugh laugh
My respect. I am glad you to see, good and very correct words. I for friendship and respect to the friend, to the friend.
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life goes on my friend in really world and in cyber worldcheers thumbs up
keep smiling handshake laugh laugh
Sledi svoim putem
makes a lot of sense bouquet
nobody is perfectthumbs up
and be happy all cause life can be short don t forget cheers
Good point Zman,
But That's the risk of online dating, be it paid sites or free sites, Its not just a problem for CS.
Because of the nature of things it happens.
I read a blog the other day about a blind date gone wrong.
We all experienced that, but we didn't delete the friend who organised it. laugh
Would you agree to date someone you thought was factitious. We all have common sense to use.
and I meant why worry about a bloggers profile until it becomes necessary
im smart I date only 2 weeks in one year j/k laugh
Angelpepper,
Keep smiling Girl cheers



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Sorry, I am posting the website, because I think it is worth of reading and keeping even on CS.

Have a great evening.
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Ummka,
what does it say on the base of your picture.
this I took for you lissingcheershttp://youtu.be/tYRi4AKU1kY
A very nice and good written blog. I can not agree more, this is a lot of what I have wanted to say too, but never found the words to say them... Thank you Non for putting my thoughts on the paper.
hug teddybear hug
My respect. I am glad to Boban that you understood sense of this picture. Yes to everyone the road. And not everyone chooses the road correctly.
At everyone the way – the road
She is defined by destiny,
and can a case, or will of god.
But the choice is always – it for you.

And still everyone has the right to change something:
To break, destroy, or to create.
All people in the world can dream,
To wish, suffer, and sometimes to carry out

And somehow time the creator, and can be destiny
The choice such was offered:
To three people different, thinking, dreaming,
About happiness dreaming, sometimes the suffering
At one desire it was possible to think,
That after completely happy to become.
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hug bouquet
the picture tells nonsmoker. Everyone chooses the road.hug
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teddybear bouquet
I hope only not 24 hrs laugh laugh
Although I am new on this dating site and have followed most of the interesting blogs for a long time now I do think that zmountainman and Jarred both have valid points that makes a lot of sense. I certainly would not like to communicate with a ghost.giggle
Fleur,
A lot of good ideas in that post and even with the christian overtones is worth a read by non believers too thanks,
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im free like a bird in the sky laugh
Wellela,
Glad it makes sense to you cheers
@ Ummka and Boban (follow your way)
Ja cu pokuĊĦati dunno
I like Barry York´s blogs. He is a Presbyterian Pastor, but his way of writing and expressing ideas are a perfect way how to use blogging for proper communication with people.

Yes, many tips from his blog would be fine to practise more on CS
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TrudieT, I agree.
Yes they do have very valid points. So what solutions do you offer.

All I am saying is I am certainly not going to become an eye spy note taker. my time is to valuable for it. dunno

And I sure wont be running out my door to meet the first supermodel that views my profile. wine
fleur,
I never heard of him, but will be sure to read up. thumbs up
Rebecca,
Thanks for taking the time to post your opinion. handshake
All are welcome here.
fotinia,
thanks for dropping by.
There is no need to explain a small in-discrepancy in you profile.
I wrote this blog as a defense against having to do so. We all know your real without having to answer about it. cheers wave
AWESOME thumbs up thumbs up
if I have 10 thumbs I will give it all for your thought Nonswine
Have a wonderful day Nonsteddybear
Thanks for dropping by Martha wave
Hope your having a good weekend.
Sorry Non, then I got something wrong. wine

Nah, had a friendly chat and that was it for me, but had to clarify a while later that this is not the done thing for me. He now has a profile where he even claims to be younger plus a fake pic. dunno
Hi Non, in this case I didn't really get it. He did behave like a gentleman (apart from the obvious lying part) and I got the impression he is looking for something serious - probably a good bit younger than him though. dunno Which type of woman would go for someone lying? confused
KN,
Its kinda of sad that people who are nice feel the need to try to fool others. Unless they believe they still look the same as in the old pics. which is a recognized problem in quite a few forms. dunno
I'm sure we all came across the "dated pics" etc. at some stage Non. laugh Just a question, did anyone do themselves any favours with that? dunno
KN
Have you seen Zmans beach pose wow laugh
Non, I put that there specially for you laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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