now now cat don't say that. Definetely you have enough time left to catch up, ofcourse not 44 years;, but time. and may you two have many more brownies together. But watch your sugar levels.
Marriage is sacred. Then not only one is holy. If he is not ready, so be it. If you are ready, then two options, wait forever till he is ready or find someone who is ready.
Better this way, while you both are alive. Im struggling because I couldn't do it when someone was alive. On the other hand wear a helmet, what if pots come flying. After all what goes around comes around ha.
thank you for all your condolence messages. Life goes on.. As usual. Coming here to find someone to talk to has become a part of my life. Irony is I feel much safe and comfortable talking to strangers, than the people who are right next to me. Thanks again.
RE: why ?
the idiots think the others deserve and want it more than you I guess. Don't get disheartened. It's just idiots.