tallteach Blog Comments (5)

RE: How can you go forward after losing a loved one.

I lost my husband to divorce twenty years ago and have recovered only after half the length of the marriage in time. I also miss my grandma who past away in 63 from lung cancer, my grandpa in 83 from colon cancer and my dad in 93 from lung cancer and my mother in 2003 from skin cancer/dementia.People around me in the town I live in don't understand a bit.They have ten or twelve come over every holiday and they would like a few to leave.My daughter lives in Ca. and my sister lives in Pa. They think it's too much trouble to see relatives at the holidays.So I who have little funds have to make the trip.What I found usefull was to take one day at a time.Don't think about tommorrow for it will never be ok, with your fears.Let them go!Do things you have always wanted to..Go places that excite you,experience life in what ever form comes to you. :

RE: I never thought that it would happen to me......

be wary of men bearing gifts.Someone who seems to good to be true.They usually are.Make sure your life has things happening and you are not sitting at home waiting for that email that will make your day.That is how they lure you in. Go out with friends and do things that are not like you, that you enjoy and that fills you up spiritually.

RE: McCain Has 13 Cars, Obama 1

thirteen is twelve too many. If they are all needed then limit them to one car for each house which would be seven. Since they are less than 10 years old lets let them pay the four hundred dollar a car reg. on each and take the burden of the rest of us.

RE: READY

Just be thankful you don't live in a rural area. Second, being over 40 is a pain ,also to relationships.Third They find you if there is a need, but that is gross. Fourth You have to trust yourself to be able to pick that guy out from a crowd.Fifth relax it will come you still have time.Sixth I have no time I am in the middle of chemo and that makes dating even worse.Have faith that there is someone out there, then hang up the fear and live life.

RE: day two of cycle five -done

I did my chemo last week and I only have one left,I know what you feeling.I am trying to start a support group here and every one is spiting in my face with disgust. No one wants to deal with this problem. They had a group a few years ago and the person directing it passed awayand they never replaced them.We are a rural area and the regular rounds of information here don't work.