14 october 2010, happy me cause my wife came finally from Morocco to Belgium We spoke for one year on internet. During the first three weeks I allready was the bad man. I was allways honest in everything but constantly critisized that she could marry another man in switserland more rich than I and that I drove a utility car whom everybody laughed at. After beïng lost somewhere in a trainstation accidently went out a the false one ( she took allready the same tour since two week regulary without mistake) I doubted allready. Nevertheless I gave eight years to stay with her to learn her the Dutch language, our culture and she never had to wear her vowl she came late from work, from walking with the dog and everything. This is only one of three stories abouth marriage what I write. The two others I wont even mention. I was to blame to close myself off for these words which are very hard to bare. I wish I had not closed myself after three weeks time. that is the mistake I have made and I still regret it. My opinion is that to much and often people chose on what is on the outside and less on the inside and to quickly jumping in bed with eachother after 2-3 meetings. I had a classic and severe education and proud of it. I think men and women should think more in communicating and caring and discovering mutual intrests than thinking with their pants and what is inside it. In a marriage if it stuck both are to blame and then is time to put your hands on your head in a mirror and look whom is under it. That is my sincerest opinion … and a broken relationship like this ...or anything els which is personnal I never would write to take revenge...for me someone whom does this is the most guilty one.
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RE: Fighting for your man...worth killing???
14 october 2010, happy me cause my wife came finally from Morocco to BelgiumWe spoke for one year on internet. During the first three weeks I allready was the bad man.
I was allways honest in everything but constantly critisized that she could marry another man
in switserland more rich than I and that I drove a utility car whom everybody laughed at.
After beïng lost somewhere in a trainstation accidently went out a the false one ( she took allready the same
tour since two week regulary without mistake) I doubted allready.
Nevertheless I gave eight years to stay with her to learn her the Dutch language, our culture and she never had to wear her vowl she came late from work, from walking with the dog and everything. This is only one of three stories abouth marriage what I write. The two others I wont even mention. I was to blame to close myself off for these words which are very hard to bare. I wish I had not closed myself after three weeks time.
that is the mistake I have made and I still regret it.
My opinion is that to much and often people chose on what is on the outside and less on the inside and to quickly jumping in bed with eachother after 2-3 meetings. I had a classic and severe education and proud of it. I think men and women should think more in communicating and caring and discovering mutual intrests than thinking with their pants and what is inside it. In a marriage if it stuck both are to blame and then is time to put your hands on your head in a mirror and look whom is under it.
That is my sincerest opinion … and a broken relationship like this ...or anything els which is personnal I never would write to take revenge...for me someone whom does this is the most guilty one.