I agree, I've been single for a long time as it just seem the ones that find me appealing don't appeal to me and vise versa! Time after time. I guess it does get more difficult as we age in terms of flexibility. I will settle for a lady who isn't a 10, a 9 or even an 8 (sorry, that is cheesy but it shows different levels)but even those in the 7 range, nice, fairly good looking, think they should be getting 9's and 10's! No wonder so many of us don't connect. More and more it appears to be about the looks first, then what the person can bring to you, and lastly what they are all about in spirit and character. How about emphasizing what you can bring to a relationship as apposed to what you want and expect? Novel idea but unrealistic like I guess I may be. Carry on...
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RE: Dating = discouraging
I agree, I've been single for a long time as it just seem the ones that find me appealing don't appeal to me and vise versa! Time after time. I guess it does get more difficult as we age in terms of flexibility. I will settle for a lady who isn't a 10, a 9 or even an 8 (sorry, that is cheesy but it shows different levels)but even those in the 7 range, nice, fairly good looking, think they should be getting 9's and 10's! No wonder so many of us don't connect. More and more it appears to be about the looks first, then what the person can bring to you, and lastly what they are all about in spirit and character. How about emphasizing what you can bring to a relationship as apposed to what you want and expect? Novel idea but unrealistic like I guess I may be. Carry on...