Do not ever travel to a country where English is not the native language. If you really can't decipher what is in that message, then you'd starve in a foreign country.
if you see yourself as a risk...then no I wouldn't think your worth one. Really, you should have a better opinion of yourself for starters. Everyone is special simply because each of us is different. Find your "specialness" and you won't be a risk to anyone, least yourself...
Love doesn't need to hurt if one understands what true love is. Having love for yourself, to be full of love means you don't need anything from another person, only an outlet for your love. a person to give it to, so to speak. When you have all the love you need within yourself then your heart is invincible, you have an inexhaustible supply of love to give and don't need. If you don't need then no one can hurt you.
Until you see this person as yourself and are full of love for you, then I'm afraid you'll never find a "healthy" relationship.
Healthy relationships are not about getting something, or the balance of giving and getting...but about sending out a feeling. Most people are attempting to fill a void within themselves with something they get from another person. this can only ever lead to heartache.
A truly healthy relationship consists of two people who want for nothing but to share the love they themselves are so full of. There is no thought to receiving in a healthy relationship only giving.
Yes Chuk you answered your own question. The easiest way to tell if someone is a liar is in the fact that they don't trust you. Liars don't trust other people. it's simple really and easy to recognize.
Words are cheap...feelings need not be expressed, just felt. When you say I love you it's about you, not someone else. It's selfish and corrupt. If you show it you never need to say it.
RE: Bad spelling and grammar.
Do not ever travel to a country where English is not the native language. If you really can't decipher what is in that message, then you'd starve in a foreign country.