Well....its not easy to find a match...Profiles....most look like copied templates....So Who is Whoand Who is What is hard to understand...I'm using my 6th and 7th senses to guess...It works most of the time and I'm rarely disappointed. Good luck to you all!
Of course its possible for two people from different countries to meet. I don't think there could be ever any excuse if any of them finds always reasons not to visit the other. I someone wants something he/she achieves it. About who is paying the 'meeting' expenses I don think this is our business. Its for the couple to decide how to solve the financial problems.
O.k. I'm glad I'm reading this. Finally someone broke the silence about cyber relationships. I have the same experience and I guess most of us do. My messenger list is full of strange birds with whom I chatted 2-3 times at the most. And the next thing that happens these people will disappear somewhere in the cyber space. If they login they are apparently invisible. I keep their usernames for some time in my list then I delete them. What's the use of keeping someone in your list since that person does not even appear visible to you?! So... yeah... its hard to keep such relationships because you don't meet, you don't speak to each other face to face, you can't see each other expressions and mostly you cannot share and do things together. Many people do not consider on line dating a serious thing. Also although IQ, Personality and Love type tests might contribute positively they are apparently not a criterion to judge a person until you meet him/her. Generally I agree many people on line are very insecure because they failed to achieve their dreams and ambitions in life generally. Rudeness is often a way for them to hide their infriority complex and boost their ego. I mailed once to someone from a civilized country and all I wrote in my mail was 'Hi there!'. In return this guy replied to me: 'Yeah, right! Bulgaria, where the hell was this!' LOL Mind that guy wrote in his profile he was a degree holder! So I wrote back to him that if he was not interested why replying at all?! Or was this a way for him to boost his ego and compensate for his inferiority complex?! Its hard to give advise on how to handle on line relationships but, here are some tips: 1. Try not to give out your personal mail immediately although this suppose to make things easier. Communicate with that person via the site mail for awhile. If you see that person continues being interested in you then exchange your private mails and IM's. 2. Do not be in a hurry to judge after exchanging your private mails. Things are often not what they seem to be. 3. Be patient. 4. If it ends quickly with silence for some time, try to break it. If there is no reply consider that person most likely unsuitable for long term relationship. 5. In the end be positive, slefconfident, be yourself and have faith.
ok. I do not see why should this be an issue. Everyone has the right to their choice in anything in life. Same holds true for dating profiles. As much as a picture could be decieving so much it could be useful to give one a hunch about the person he/she might date on line. As far as I am concerned if someone wants to date on line I see no reason why shouldn't he/she publish a picture if the main goal is to find a friend, lover, mate and partner even if this person looks like Quasimodo. People' would like to see before believeing. In other words 'Seeing is believing'. Besides few lies remain undiscovered, in other words it will always show up provided one knows how to wait patiently....
Well...I guess one should have quite a number of wrong relationships before he finds the right one. Look carefully round yourself, have patience and trust your guts.
I want to say something here. Human being relationships are very complicated. They become more complicated as we are getting older for several reasons. Even if one finds true love on a dating site... would he recognize the signs? I suggest we all try to be less judgemental as we all made and make our mistakes. I also strongly believe that one should not be in a hurry to make conclusions about anyone else. True friendship, trust and love are to be earned. I know we are all short of time and always in a hurry. Sometimes its right, sometimes wrong. Let your primeval instincts for selfpreservation take over. Hurry up slowly. 90% of your future depends on the success of your relationship. If unsuccessful it will leave you miserable for the rest of your life. Being there, done that.
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But I want to stress on the final mortgage payment! LOL
Thanks, you made my day!
RE: Dispatches from the dating arena...
Well....its not easy to find a match...Profiles....most look like copied templates....So Who is Whoand Who is What is hard to understand...I'm using my 6th and 7th senses to guess...It works most of the time and I'm rarely disappointed.Good luck to you all!
Vanya