now honestly, it's not that different then what single mom's go through. it's a rare PERSON that can see past the obligations and responsiblities and time demands and restraints that single parenthood brings to the potentially wonderful partner you can be. It was hard for me to do, but i seperated my personal adult life (dating and talking with men) from my maternal life (getting girls to school, making teacher conferances, work, helping with homework, cooking, washing,ect..) and to tell myself it's not my kids business yet. and my kids aren't my date's business yet either (other than letting them know i have them). My kids don't need a vauge memory of different men (if i ever find a single one that'll amaze me) mommy's dated and i want that other person to get to know ME before getting to know the mommy me.
RE: The people here are L.A.M.E. !