have you met him yet ? gotten involved yet ? being interested isn't saying alot, depending on how far you and him have gone. Like another said, it goes both ways. keeping options open. Sometimes it's like trying to hold sand in your hand. NOT an easy thing to do.
Believe me, it goes both ways. Like shopping for a car. You like the fast shiny one, but the price is high, so you buy the one that won't hurt you so much financially, but it's still a new car. People don't like to be confrontational. I have more respect for someone that is up front and honest. Even if it hurts. At least I know where I stand.
I think people put on their best front and inside, they are very conditional. They have wants and sesires and are not willing to give in. They want their car with a certain transmission, color, model interior etc. they treat their partner the same. Doesn't work like that. It's happened to me too. Don't feel alone. That's why people used to "date" for awhile and keep their clothes on. Everything changes when you sleep with someone. No one really like confrontation, so they try to be polite and just vaporize from your life, which I think is just as rude as saying what's on your mind. Make any sense ?
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RE: Men that keep searching
have you met him yet ? gotten involved yet ? being interested isn't saying alot, depending on how far you and him have gone. Like another said, it goes both ways. keeping options open. Sometimes it's like trying to hold sand in your hand. NOT an easy thing to do.