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i have a question...

sigh what is it with some people? you start out with talking thru here, then on the phone before you meet and you both decide that each other is worth spending time with, then *bam* like a punch in the kisser, the man is gone and women are left going "what the *@#&"? i have had this experience earlier and was wondering what makes people do this when it's not that hard to just say "lets be friends instead of lovers"? what makes it so difficult to be just friends? I think that friends are what makes life worth living sometimes. i was just wondering what made people do this instead of being honest with the other person or for that matter, themselves? confused
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tarrantcounty200
tarrantcounty200●Bedford, Texas USA
Mar 24, 2007●3 Comments
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I think people put on their best front and inside, they are very conditional. They have wants and sesires and are not willing to give in. They want their car with a certain transmission, color, model interior etc. they treat their partner the same. Doesn't work like that. It's happened to me too. Don't feel alone. That's why people used to "date" for awhile and keep their clothes on. Everything changes when you sleep with someone. No one really like confrontation, so they try to be polite and just vaporize from your life, which I think is just as rude as saying what's on your mind. Make any sense ?

~ John ~
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SusieRR
SusieRR●northeast, Ohio USA
Mar 28, 2007●6 Comments
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I am sorry to say I have done that. I can't explain it. It just doesn't feel like it's completely right. No one wants to hear, "Let's be just friends" expecially men. This is what my 24 yr. old son told me. He said "WHY do women think guys want to be just friends? They don't"

I feel badly for anyone I've hurt, but so early in this acquaintance/friendship, how can someone be THAT hurt?

As for honesty? I am afraid to be so cruel, so I just back off.

Sometimes the other person seems really clingy ad I feel suffocated, I don't like being asked a lot of questions and I hate hostility when I don't feel like answering. This has happened to me so many times, I don't even want a relationship anymore.
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melissa087
melissa087●fairfax, Virginia USA
Mar 29, 2007●5 Comments
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grrrrr! i may be 19- but i am all too familiar with this already! sometimes i just want to give up on guys! frustrated
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