Just let me say that any guy who says "you're hot", or "Hello, Cutie", and so forth on a first e-mail (especially if he leaves his phone number or invites you off site), DESERVES a non reply.
That's not what I am complaining about. As some have already said, it boils down to plain common courtesy.
I didn't realize that a lot of women are having the same problem. So I learned something. Guys, gals, show some class. I always write something based on a person's profile, without the pickup line. It shows you are trying to get to know someone. Understand, though, if someone is arrogant enough not to reply, it means that he/she is either meat-market shopping, is on this site because they are bored and not really serious, or simply thinks they are the neatest little trick ever to come down the pike.
WOMEN WHO DON'T WRITE BACK
Just let me say that any guy who says "you're hot", or "Hello, Cutie", and so forth on a first e-mail (especially if he leaves his phone number or invites you off site), DESERVES a non reply.That's not what I am complaining about. As some have already said, it boils down to plain common courtesy.
I didn't realize that a lot of women are having the same problem. So I learned something. Guys, gals, show some class. I always write something based on a person's profile, without the pickup line. It shows you are trying to get to know someone. Understand, though, if someone is arrogant enough not to reply, it means that he/she is either meat-market shopping, is on this site because they are bored and not really serious, or simply thinks they are the neatest little trick ever to come down the pike.
Treat others as you would like to be treated.