The cold/warm truth, Go for it. I'm similar to you, it's easy peasy giving advice but when it comes to the crunch just DO IT, who knows? She's probably thinking the same thing. I wish I could follow my own advice, my advice as worthless as it is, is GO FOR IT, she's probably waiting for it, confidence mate
It's only my opinion, I personally don't believe in religion (my choice), I definately believe in God/higher power, call it what you will. I'm born into Catholism from my birth but I'm not a catholic if that makes sense. I know what's right and wrong ie the 10 commandments which could be translated under most if not all religions. My concept of God doesn't fit a box that can be ticked right or wrong but I know God is real.
RE: Thai Marriage
And live in NZ/OZ happily ever after