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hello everyone i was just wondering has anyone ever felt insecure about themselfs are just really embarrassed to talk to anyone are meet anyone well im in love but im very scared she wont like me in real life iv never lied to her but its so easy to talk online i need some advice think you justmejohn
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Smitten
Smitten●saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada
Jun 28, 2010●23 Blogs●528 Comments
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hi john, wave i totally gave up blogging, but couldnt resist this one, cuz i so felt this, your feelings are totally natural john, and yes, hiding behind a computer screen is so different then the real deal, how we display ourselves, emotions etc...its actually less anxiety driven and less nervousness, i feel insecure alot john, alot and self doubt quite abit and totally did about my current relationship, my partner lives thousand of miles away, we had the same feelings both of us that u are feeling, but remember she feel in love for who you are and you fell in love for who she is, and meeting her in real life, ya its tough because we always self doubt, worry, judge ourselves unfortuntely and wonder wat are they gonna think, is this wat they thought i would be like, are they really gonna like me for me, a million things go through ur head cuz you want it so bad cuz felt so good and real behind the computer .....just believe in urself john, my love for jeff was real behind the computer and is totally real as you say, in real life, its there.....but dont get me wrong, ur feelings are natural, and if u didnt feel wat u r feeling, it wouldnt be normal.......honestly wish you both the best and that ur initial meeting is wonderful and works out, believe in urself and the relationshp..take care, and just throw up a couple of times b4 you meet, totally takes away those butterflys of nervousness or drink before that helps too...lol...otta here...wish you the best......teddybear
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Loves_2_dance
Loves_2_dance●La Verne, California USA
Jun 28, 2010●1 Blogs●26 Comments
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Just go ahead, young man. Contact her, set a date, get as sharp as you know how (i.e., shower & spit shine), take her some fresh flowers, show up a little early, don't expect an answer right away because your not being graded like you would in school, AND THE MOST IMPORTANT PART!! Have fun. And repeat each and every time if you 2 hit it off!

If it doesn't work out? Then THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART!!! Don't mope! Get over it quickly because there are alot more women out there! And many say "No". And it's not personal.
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moonlove
moonlove●chiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand
Jun 28, 2010●140 Blogs●778 Comments
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Haha, just funny Johncomfort
Many people would feel that way, but the feeling between two people is a lot stronger. grin
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shell0ne
shell0ne●manila, Metro Manila Philippines
Jun 28, 2010●1 Blogs●153 Comments
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ms. Ssssss
I MISSED UUUUU....
Hope u'll gona c0me back too, coz i am!
@john
Know what friend i always felt that...but i always ignored too!
I just set my mind of we'll see when the time comes!
U know u r reason we are now in this relationship??
I thank u for opening my mind again in this blog!
Go0d luck!
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mike3478
mike3478●cross city, Florida USA
Jun 28, 2010●1 Blogs●310 Comments
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Just do it.

Be honest, request the same and let the cards fall as they may.

Put it this way, if you don't try, you know what the result will be. So you have no choice but to go for it or be a certain looser.
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calmheartseeks
calmheartseeks●Somewhere, California USA
Jun 28, 2010●6 Blogs●1,531 Comments
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I would suggest talking on the phone and via web cam before meeting in person. That way you get to interact with the person more fully than you do just through the computer screen, and have a much better idea of what the person is like.

After that, if all systems are go, set a date to meet "in real life". If you both have been honest and upfront there will no surprises (on either side) to fear.

Good luck!!! cheers
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mike3478
mike3478●cross city, Florida USA
Jun 28, 2010●1 Blogs●310 Comments
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All good advice here for you John.



confused Is this a first?


cheers
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justmejohn
justmejohnOP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Jun 29, 2010●45 Blogs●109 Comments
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yes very good advice im thinkfull to all of you thinks guys
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Davinadia
Davinadia●Jakarta, Indonesia
Jun 29, 2010●16 Blogs●201 Comments
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i am also very scared you might not like me in real life but i am ready for whatever will be hug
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justmejohn
justmejohnOP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Jun 30, 2010●45 Blogs●109 Comments
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sweetheart our hearts are two big for our minds ill love you no matter what
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KornApple25
KornApple25●Lauderdale Lakes, Florida USA
Jun 30, 2010
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oh come on..it's in the mind
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sideshowbob
sideshowbob●1st house on the left, Tasman New Zealand
Jul 1, 2010●5 Comments
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The cold/warm truth, Go for it. I'm similar to you, it's easy peasy giving advice but when it comes to the crunch just DO IT, who knows? She's probably thinking the same thing. I wish I could follow my own advice, my advice as worthless as it is, is GO FOR IT, she's probably waiting for it, confidence mate thumbs up
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