AS FOR DISCLOSURE, I think it's important to make peace to someone you might have harmed,but to disclose something that might cause further damage to someone who has no awareness they've been wronged,then I don't think it should be disclosed to that person always.
Sometimes we want to get the feeling of guilt off our back,but we can't get rid of our guilt and lay it on the hands of someone who has no AWARENESS FOR a wrong we did. I THINK IN SOME SITUATIONS it's better to disclose our wrong to someone who understands,yet won't be affected.
Good QUESTION....BUT I think it depends from case to case.
My friends father was like that.He didn't know how to say sorry,so when he did wrong he'd leave a box of donuts on the kitchen table the next morning or something.It was his way of saying sorry.
Don't listen to these women,they don't know what the HELL they're talking about.Playing hard to get is the last thing you want to do.Don't get into all the mind games bulls.hit.
Here's what you do.........Go up top him and tell him how you feel, and tell him that it bothers you that he doesn't spend enough time with you.If he cares,he'll make some sort of effort to be with you more often,if he doesn't,then at least you know where you stand,where to go from there,and you were honest.
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