Yes so true, the last thing anyone wants to do is make the same mistake they have done in the past or be hurt like they have in the past.
I have certain things I will and certain things I will not put up with again and my opinion is if my new partner doesnt like it, Its see ya later don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you. Harsh? maybe but if we do not learn from previous mistakes then we will eventually end up going down the same road again.
I dont believe you are being told I dont want you. I believe she does want you but would like to take it slow.
In other words she wants Mr Right but not Mr Right now!
RE: Right i have my gun..its loaded and i am ready to ....
Oh no, I need to get up to speed. I put my big fat foot in it. I feel so bad sorry rochy. I dont suppose that was the time to joke with you