Fear of meeting face to face. (13)

Jan 10, 2008 7:24 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Does anyone here have a fear of meeting someone face to face from a singles site?
By fears I mean is the fantasy behind the computer desk going to be demolished once you meet face to face? I am lucky and have only met one guy face to face and we are still good friends.

But I truly believe the person I am taking at the moment may just very well be the one love . And I cant help feeling what if this utter excitment and anticipation is shattered when we meet. I have been open and honest with him and he has payed me the same respect back. I was just wondering how other people felt and any experiences people may have had that they could share.

Because I am a bit smitten struck at the moment and love it.
Jan 10, 2008 5:22 PM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
thumbs up Great points thank you.
Jan 10, 2008 5:34 PM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
rochy
rochyrochyhigh country, Victoria Australia5 Threads 150 Posts
No Experience , Get Out of Your Head ,Go Forward /Be Safe !! beer
Good Luck Stop doingfrustrated
Jan 11, 2008 5:14 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
Lou79
Lou79Lou79Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 1,318 Posts
Please tell me he likes your feet just the way they are?? rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 11, 2008 5:18 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Too funny rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Maybe I should wear socks and boots on the first date to be sure.
Jan 11, 2008 5:24 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
Lou79
Lou79Lou79Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 1,318 Posts
LOL

I say go for it and meet this guy..! as Rochy (I think) said.. who dares? wins..


Must remember that next time I have a fear! .. wink
Jan 12, 2008 12:15 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
Lok_Simpson
Lok_SimpsonLok_Simpsonbundamba, Queensland Australia38 Threads 415 Posts
Meet now , stop building up high expectations over the keyboard.. nothing worse than thinking "YES OH YES" only to meet and find out its.. no.. HELL NO!!! You can only learn so much thru a keyboard and webcam. Meeting quickly and in a public place is best and safest way to do it , i have heaps of friends from doing this ( stay in contact with a lot of them! ) and sometimes their friends could be the ones you end up dating!

oh.. I have no fear meeting people , i am who i am , i dont put on an act or anything , im a take it or leave it kinda guy ( wont tell you i've been single for 3 years now though frustrated )
Jan 12, 2008 12:18 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
thumbs up thank you
Feb 26, 2008 9:01 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
geoff70
geoff70geoff70KIRWAN, Queensland Australia1 Posts
I believe that you should give the guy a chance.
He may have been going through a very rough patch in his life and really needed you to re-assure him that you want to meet him and he probabaly wanted or still does want to meet you!!! ( You know what I mean sxc 666)
Give him a chance..............Who knows, he maybe THE ONE.




sxc666: Does anyone here have a fear of meeting someone face to face from a singles site?
By fears I mean is the fantasy behind the computer desk going to be demolished once you meet face to face? I am lucky and have only met one guy face to face and we are still good friends.

But I truly believe the person I am taking at the moment may just very well be the one . And I cant help feeling what if this utter excitment and anticipation is shattered when we meet. I have been open and honest with him and he has payed me the same respect back. I was just wondering how other people felt and any experiences people may have had that they could share.

Because I am a bit struck at the moment and love it.
heart wingshug heart beating
Feb 28, 2008 1:23 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
Jimi123499
Jimi123499Jimi123499Central, Victoria Australia19 Threads 2 Polls 1,048 Posts
sxc666: Because I am a bit struck at the moment and love it.


Good Luck Tina, just always remember to be yourself and all will be cool always.......
applause applause lips
Feb 28, 2008 4:03 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
kathha
kathhakathhaTaree, New South Wales Australia5 Posts
Hey thats positive! If your worried about meeting him well that means his important to you - just think his probably feeling the same way - just be yourself - and good luckthumbs up
Feb 28, 2008 4:31 PM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
j_goose
j_goosej_goosenorthfield, Ohio USA49 Threads 3 Polls 1,239 Posts
sxc666: Does anyone here have a fear of meeting someone face to face from a singles site?
By fears I mean is the fantasy behind the computer desk going to be demolished once you meet face to face? I am lucky and have only met one guy face to face and we are still good friends.

But I truly believe the person I am taking at the moment may just very well be the one . And I cant help feeling what if this utter excitment and anticipation is shattered when we meet. I have been open and honest with him and he has payed me the same respect back. I was just wondering how other people felt and any experiences people may have had that they could share.

Because I am a bit struck at the moment and love it.


"plink, plink" <---here's my two cents. If you want to meet "him", and he wants to meet you, go for it! And if you've gotten along well so far, I don't see the problem.

If he doesn't turn out to be what you expected, (but I hope he is), you'd have a new GREAT friend at the very least.

It's cool to be smitten, so go with your gut. If it feels right do it. Hopefully your views of this guy aren't shattered when you meet, but I say "drive fast and take chances".

I'd hate to think I let something slip through my fingers and always wonder "what if...."

Hope that helped ya.


kiss
Mar 1, 2008 4:51 AM CST Fear of meeting face to face.
blondie0123
blondie0123blondie0123Brisbane, Queensland Australia3 Posts
Great reply to that girl...very honest and down to earth... thank you.. cant stand waffling...April
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