I can understand the not getting married again part, as I do not want to ever get married again, but the living together part I dont understand. Everyone has reasons behind their choices though. I suppose the question has to be can you accept the choices?
Not that I can really have a point of view as I haven't had anyone look down on me for being a single parent. I really dont care what people think, I'm sure people aren't out there worrying about what I think.
I found looking at the bad in the relationship helped me, I think after a breakup you tend to only miss the good that happened in the relationship, my last relationship when if brokedown I looked at the bad of it because it was nightmare, arguments etc.
I dont think finding another straight away is such a good idea, take some time for yourself to touch base again. I promised to take a year to myself and I have done that and only recently thought of beginning another relationship. Time out was the best thing I ever did.
But the feeling when a relationship breaks up sux. I wish you all the best. Look to the future and kick the past in the A*s
Does anyone here have a fear of meeting someone face to face from a singles site? By fears I mean is the fantasy behind the computer desk going to be demolished once you meet face to face? I am lucky and have only met one guy face to face and we are still good friends.
But I truly believe the person I am taking at the moment may just very well be the one . And I cant help feeling what if this utter excitment and anticipation is shattered when we meet. I have been open and honest with him and he has payed me the same respect back. I was just wondering how other people felt and any experiences people may have had that they could share.
Because I am a bit struck at the moment and love it.
I have, only one though and we are very good friends to this day. And shortly I think I am going to meet the man of my dreams we connect very well and he is the most gorgeous guy I have ever spoken to, and I think I could fall easily for him.
Does the internet thing work, I dont know but im willing to find out.
I dont really know any in NZ but I know the Holiday Inns here are usually pretty good. Surf the net they usually put all there information and pics on there these days.
RE: Is that a normal thing???
I can understand the not getting married again part, as I do not want to ever get married again, but the living together part I dont understand. Everyone has reasons behind their choices though. I suppose the question has to be can you accept the choices?