I am not sure why I posted this thread either. It was a spur of the moment thing. I was sad, crying, and just reached out. I did not imagine in a million years the kind of response I would receive...overflowing with love and positivity. That was not my intention. I did not have a intention. I have friends I turn to. I lead a group where I support and empower women as well, so I understand well the need to reach out. I apologize for offending you by my kneejerk, emotional moment.
You are, quite eerily, right on target. You have hit the bullseye. No, this isn't the result of one date gone bad, or being stood up once, or not receiving a promised call, once. It happens over and over and over and over again. And yes...I usually just rolls off my shoulders and I look forward and not back. But alas, something "triggered" in me last night. Thank you for your thoughtfulness and insight...you are amazing.
It's not this site. There are other sites I "frequent" for actual dating...more men in my area. And I think your "backup plan" comment is on target...I feel they tend to "forget" to call or follow through when someone they find more interesting or prettier comes along. The most reason was Saturday night...had a date. Saturday came and went. The excuse I received..."It was snowing. I assumed you realized that since it was snowing, we wouldn't be meeting". Oh well. This is the dating world.
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RE: Say something nice...anything. :-)
Vent...of course!