Ive had a few but, the one that stands out is when my lover unexpectedly whisked me away for my B'day to a really quaint mountain town for the weekend, we took a gondola ride up to the top, soaked our bones at the hotsprings, ate in great restaraunts, stayed at a nice hotel. We drank wine, laughed and made love...it was so fun we turned it into a 3 day weekend.
I see what your saying...but I think love is strong enough to blow down walls and really arent we all vunerable to love? But I do see how some peeps end up guarding thier hearts to the exclusion of love...Ive seen that in action...but no man is an island! But in the end I think those peeps are the ones that tumble hardest. After all, its a looong fall from the top of a wall...ask Humpty
Gosh my hearts been broken more than I care to remember, but its all good, every time I fall in love my heart grows again. So it all balances out in the end. Besides the best adventures come with risk.
RE: Why is so hard..?
Well, we could always Sooooo Ive often pondered the question...are penises trainable ???