WHAT IS SO ATTRACTIVE ABOUT HAVING YOUR BODY PIERCED AND OPEN TO POSSIBLE INFECTION.??
I CAN SEE HAVING THOSE THAT COME OFF OR WASH OFF., BUT WHEN I SEE A MAN WHO IS COVERED WITH TATOOS PRACTICALLY ALL OVER, IT TURNS ME OFF. THE SAME GOES FOR WOMEN. MAYBE A SMALL TATOO OF A ROSE OR SOMETHING OF THAT NATURE, BUT THESE OVERALL PATTERNS DON'T DO A THING FOR ME.
I have never gone out of state, but have received MANY emails from, England, Netherlands, Sweden, Australia, Israel, etc..... The only problem here is that these guys were 15 to 30 years younger than me.
I usually reply with a little advice to the effect that I have a son older than they are, and suggest they find someone closer to their age. The fact that they claim they love "older" women doesn't wash.
I thoroughly sympathize with you dear. I am a grandmother of 5 and have been there just like you.
Over 20 years ago, I thought I found a man who was to be my partner for life. I had already been married once before, but he didn't care, and we had a wonderful relationship, and were engaged for 7 years/ I wasn't intrested in marriage and was content to be with him, period.
When he proposed, I was very happy. He showered me with gifts, jewelry, and clothes. He was very good to my children. Everything was like a dream come true.
Suddenly, after 14 months of marriage, he decided he wanted a divorce. This came as a complete shock, not only to me but to my family and friends. I don't know what gave me the stength and courage to move on, but it took a little time. Fortunately my children, who were grown by then, were a great comfort and support.
So you see dear, remember, nobody dies from a broken heart. And the saying that there is only one mate for you in the world is not true. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you will meet your life partner. You are young and you will look back on this as a learning life experience. Just don't give up. Time is a great healer. Best of luck. SONGBIRD.
I must have been all of 18, when I was fixed up with a blind date. The guy was average, a bit on the plump side, and not very appealing. I was polite, but there was no chemistry. That did not prevent him from proposing (on the first date). I thought he was joking, but he wasn't. All I could do was stammer that I was too young to get married. I never saw or heard from him again. (lucky me)!!!!!!!!
One good thing, your heart may hurt a hundred times in your life, but it can never break.
So force a smile on your face, hang out with friends, take in a show, go shopping. In other words, keep occupied. There is sure to be something better in store for you, if you only have faith.
How did you manage to have him stay even a "couple of days?"
Take it from an experienced grandmother of 5, it can only get worse. If it comes to marriage, he will treat YOU like his mother and his mother like his wife.
RE: I'm Confused....... Can You Help??????
TELL HIM TO DROP DEAD TWICE: YOU CAN'T BE POLITE TO THESE CHARACTERS.