No they're not, you're just lowering your standards.
One piece of advice for you collin, look outside the U.S. for women, there are plenty of beautiful women outside of this box who will be more than happy to have you. Focus on making a lot of money and then move out of the U.S, under no circumstance should you lower your standards.
This is only a question that a woman would struggle with. Women accuse us men of being shallow, but what they are really saying is that they are jealous of our consistency. We men know essentially what we want: long, shiny hair; tight body; intelligence is a perk, but not a deal breaker. yeah, that's about it.
Women, on the other hand, are in a constant struggle over the man they want. They want to sleep with Vin Diesel or the drummer from Motley Crue and have him sire their children. But they want to marry a lawyer or doctor to take care of them while they raise the kids. They can't reconcile these conflicting wants and so they conclude that because a man's needs are so easily filled he is "shallow".
Well dominoes20, since you wanted a debate, what is your opinion on healthcare, is it a right or NOT? In my opinion, Healthcare is not a right. We do not need to worry about recruiting doc/dentists to underserved areas. A right is something deserved simply for being human. You have a right to freedom, self preservation, equality, etc, but not CRRT for end-stage diabetic nephropathy.
Furthermore, healthcare is a service. If people in an "underserved" area want a doc they should be willing to pay him. Every business in America does demographic studies before opening b/c they want to make money. Why is it so amazing that docs don't want to work for free? There are people all around the world who never see a doctor yet in America we worry when someone doesn't get there Pap smear right on time.
Most of the people who can't afford to go to the doctor can afford to smoke, drink, and/or talk on a cell phone. Additionally, they often participate in activities that give them the very health problems for which they can't afford to see a doctor. Put down the bottle, the cigs, and the twinkie. Buy a pair of walking shoes.
It's been a while, and since I have a little free time on my hands, time for another lecture. It's a no brainer that only desperate men date single moms, but I figure I put some analysis behind it. Not only are these men desperate, but they have no self-worth in themselves because they willing want to raise another man's offspring, most likely "bad boy" offspring at that, and take resources from their labors that could be used to propagate their own biological offspring - which even further makes them biological failures along with being desperate and having no self worth. If somebody like me, who is reasonably attractive, can meet and date good-looking women that are not single moms, then these desperate men, at the very least, can meet and date decent or semi-decent women that are not single moms as well, and never as so to lower themselves to date single moms, or they can choose not to even date women and stay single and have their self worth intact as a man. There are plenty of single women out there for dating that are not single moms, so there has to be an inferiority complex with these men that date single moms, since no other reason will suffice to explain their desperation in dating the apex of irresponsibility in a woman such as the single mom. Furthermore, these men that date single moms are only supporting the ridiculous notion prevalent in American society that single moms are the norm. Single moms are not the norm, they are the rare exception, and are dealt with on a case by case basis with a sane society. Although, since American society is far from being sane, we have the plague of the single mom culture being propagated in it, to the detriment of men and women. To the detriment of women, thinking that having multiple kids by multiple fathers is normal and healthy for their children, and to the detriment of men, thinking it is perfectly fine to date such and jeopardize their future - from a biological standpoint and a self-actualization one.
I commend you, the world would be a much better place if everyone had your compassion, and selfless heart. You're the embodiment of everything that is human. Good luck
An excellent read indeed, this is one of the books in my collection. Another book I would recommend for you is "48 laws of Power", its heir to Machiavelli's Prince, espousing principles power,emotions etc. An excellent book on the uses (and abuses) of power in history. Highly recommended for it's entertainment value as well as the information contained within it. And even if you arent a power-maniac, it's a good reference for observing those who are. Actually Im surprised there were no examples from modern day politics (except for Kissinger), but overall an excellent treatise on the subject.
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dang it, how do I edit my post?????