The two that live with me are 13 and 11, the reason I bring this up is , last year I broke off a relationship with someone very special to me, we were dating for 3 years, in that 3 years, there was no bond between her and my boys, the final straw was when she asked me, when are we gonna have time for our family, because she had kids as well, however I bonded with her boys very easily, because I loved them and wanted to. I reflect back on things that happened and wonder if I could have done things different.
What can I do to help a wife to be, bond with my children, should I talk to them and explain the love I feel for her, and hope they bond, or should I let them bond on their own, or is this an impossible dream, what do I do if I find her.
is it just a dream
The two that live with me are 13 and 11, the reason I bring this up is , last year I broke off a relationship with someone very special to me, we were dating for 3 years, in that 3 years, there was no bond between her and my boys, the final straw was when she asked me, when are we gonna have time for our family, because she had kids as well, however I bonded with her boys very easily, because I loved them and wanted to. I reflect back on things that happened and wonder if I could have done things different.