...well, I am actually relaxed most of the time. My concern is myself!That I am looking for someone who doesnt excist. My use to say "Well, we have to bake a guy for you." Ok girls, will try and turn off my expections and see...
On how many dates, guys/ girls, have you been from this site?
A guy and I just arranged a date for later on and I am really looking forward to it. He seems nice, knows what he wants and isnt bad looking either. What I am worried about is, is myself. I went on so many dates, can't even tell how many. But after the dates, I was disapointed, there wass no spark or anything, but mostly there was nothing from site. Now I am doubting at myself! Am I too picky, too fuzzy, too high standards?? I always had great chats with the guys before and really enjoyed it, but as soon as we met, all the excitment was gone. Anybody experienced the same?
Well, there's a great german saying about trust and I am trying to translate it as best as possible. In personal, I kind of feel if someone is honest or dishonest. I was in relationships where I felt not to check wallets, drawers etc. but I was also in relationships where I felt to do so straight away! Well, here's the saying:
Everything I make and do, I even dare the other one.
MrsJaniPalantir Forum Posts (139)
no more drunk text messages and dates! 
RE: Unemployed and avoiding dating/relationships
would you be interested in general?