Hey Paws.. My advice to you is quit looking. Be visable and available though. If it's ment to happen, trust me, it will. When one tends to look, one tends to be somewhat blind because they want it so very much. It will come my man. Somewhere out there is your special lady. She will find you. Old Dog
When she gave me that poem, I was speechless. What could I say? Chance is a very special person to me. She has enrichened my life to no end. And just think of the mles we have to go! I'm sure glad she is mine!!!!!
Hey all!! I just want everyone to know that nothing will happen if you just sit there and dream. Take a chance. Opps, she's already taken....LOL If it is ment to be, it will find you.
We are really happy and contented. Each day brings us closer together. We count on this feeling and can't wait to wake up to it each morning.
Life in the northwoods is a blast. Especially with a new set of 4 wheelers and riding lawn mowers! We now have an internet connection with out electricity. Gotta love this new electronic age!
I've got to say "Been there, done that" Yes, It is very possible to fall in love with someone before you meet them. I vowed that this time, I wanted to fall inlove with the inner person first. If she looked good, then that was just frosting on the cake. Even is she didn't look good, at least I knew the inner person I fell in love with.
Many people don't take the time to know the inner person. I wonder how many have been passed up just for that reason? I know life is a big gamble sometimes. This time I wanted to be darned sure. Meeting Chance was the best move I made in my life. I feel she is the most beautiful woman I've ever met inside as well as out.
I know this love will last because we both want the same thing. How can we loose? Old dog...
To all of those who were guessing as to who Blue eyes was that Chance was referring to....Well, it's me. I've met her and we are having a blast. She is the greatest woman in the world. So far we have been together for about a month and it seems like forever. We both feel this is the one love that everyone is always talking about. We won't be getting on this as often as we used to, but rest assured, we will be thinking of you all.
We both sincerely hope each and everyone of you find the love that we have found. Good luck to all of you....Old_Dog
When some of you get older, you will understand what I'm saying...all your life you put something in that safe place, only to never remember where it is. One night I woke up dreaming that I found that safe place. I sat up, put my slippers on and then I realized I just forgot where it was. Now that's stress.
You ever wonder who started them? Think about this, they all usually say forward them to your friends....how about the spam companies? Where do you think they get the new upgraded addresses from. they can sell active addresses for bigger bucks. My sisters are always doing that to me. I now get approx 350 to 400 junk emails in my yahoo addy a day now.
I believe in being honest. It's the only way to go. Lies always come back to bite you. If you have any consious at all, honesty is always the better way to go. I've found a lot of people can't handle honesty, and run. They make some lame excuse just to turn tail. Oh well, that's their problem. I can live with my self.
I did, 3 years ago. I met this lady on one of the dating sites, or rather she contacted me. We talked on the computer for hours every day, then the phone. Luckly I had the one cost per month plan...lol...I flew out to meet her, stayed a week, then went back home...She flew out and we packed up my truck and I moved west. The first year was great...Then her sons got home from prison and jail. They actually expected me to support them! No way was I going to support 2 grown men who were very capable of supporting themselves. Needless to say, their mother took their side. After a year and a half og that drama, she asked me for a divorce. I agreed.
The point being, It was nice...and we got along great. We made an effort at working at it. She had all the right answers. I didn't think twice about moving to the west coast. Lord knows, I should have. If it clicks, and everything is going right, how will you know if it will work unless you try it? I'm sure there are hundreds of would be couples that would be happy if they took a chance. On the other hand, like mine, the relationship may turn into mud. There really isn't any way you can be sure.
As you all know, the first kiss is just that. The first kiss. A second kiss can not and never will take the place of the first one.
So..when do you know if and when the time is right for the first kiss. Or, do you just decide to kiss your date?
My first kiss with any lady depends on that special moment. When you look into her eyes and that monment tells both of you it's the right time. To me, that is a very special first kiss, and will never be forgotten.
I met my ex on line over 3 years ago. She asked me, I acepted, then she asked me for a divorce. I agreed. BTW, She took her previous husbands namne back...go figure. It seems they were having a great time over their weekly phone conversations the last couple of years.
I admit, I have. The present was for a young woman with four kids. I lived about 8 hours away from her and she was going thru a hard time. I knew she didn't have much for herself, as she spent what little she had on her kids. I seen her once at the lake with her kids and the swimsuit she had was so outdated, I sent her one that she loved. She sent me a thank you letter a few days afterwards. It made me feel good that I could do that simple thing for her. To this day, my son and her oldest are still great friends.
Another time, at the request of a friend, I bought another young lady with a small girl a bunch of groceries. I had never met her before, Just went on my friends word. I know she was thankful and appreciative.
I guess it just depends on the person you are as to how you would feel. If you are looking for gretuities or some other alterior motive, then I feel you are not needed in this world. It's just the way I am.
Where I come from, you grew up knowing you were going to help take care of your parents, or any other family member for that matter. It was a given. I remember just before my Father died, my brothers and I were carrying him to the bathroom and you could see the shame in his eyes. He had spend all of his life taking care of his family, buryed 2 of his kids, now they were taking care of him. We didn't have the heart to suggest a bedpan.
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Chance is a very special person to me. She has enrichened my life to no end. And just think of the mles we have to go! I'm sure glad she is mine!!!!!
RE: Some may relate to this thread.
Hey Paws..My advice to you is quit looking. Be visable and available though. If it's ment to happen, trust me, it will. When one tends to look, one tends to be somewhat blind because they want it so very much. It will come my man. Somewhere out there is your special lady. She will find you. Old Dog