move on, stop wasting your own time ...........there are plenty out there who do not lie . go and get one of those ladies who values your friendship and love.
Good advice. Take your time over it. You can always go to Russia and treat it as a holiday. When you see her home environment it will become clear to you why she is desperate to leave her homeland. Things are very grim there and the economy is very bad. Women have little choice and snaring a man like you is a dream for them of escape. She might love you , of course they do dream of love and finding the right man, but if you cannot relate to women well from your own country dont expect a Russian to be more compatable to you either. There is the language difficulty to consider as well, if she does not get the nuances of english communication would be hard, and lonliness might ensue due to the language barrier, for both of you causing a whole different set of problems. Yes they are really gorgeous and know how to take care of a man in every way. But dont let your heart rule your head here, be cautious, I agree with the person who said try to find a russian already in your country, then you might find one for love, not one just for escape. saskia
Oh I am sorry I am not shouting.......the truth is , and dont tell anyone please,I dont see so well , so i like the big letters so i can see what i write. Its ok I found my glasses now , and are using them again so i can see to read. Thankyou for making me aware of this offense here , I appreciate it. I will attempt never to offend again , please accept my apologies, i was not aware big letter s was shouting. I agree in part with your comments , especially about capricorn being acheivers, it is true. This is my natural life though, and it continues. We are focused people , and achievement and reaching goals is what life is about for us. we are born leaders and we will always naturally be followed. that people can rely on us is important to us. we are long suffering actually when we have a good mate, but we are not fickle with love and tend to choose wisely , especially the women. I also believe if a man is intimidated by me then he probably would not be right for me either. I like strong men who I can respect and feel comfortable to follow. I guess I write about my past in such a way because I am proud of who I am, and the positive aspects of my life. I was happilly and sucessfully married for a long time and then widowed. I have been in successful businesses . Many men I meet online tell me about the myraids of ladies who have nothing , a troubled past, baggage, and im not talking louis vuitton . and all the rest that makes them undesirable. I guess I just want to offer a little more. Interesting point you make though , I am definitely taking that on board as they say. Thankyou, saskia.
GOOD POINT , CHRISTINA,,,,,,,,,,,I THINK I DO THAT......IN FACT I KNOW I DO THAT........I JUST CANT WAIT TO TELL EVERY NEW DATE HOW WEIRD SOME GUYS ARE THAT I MEET. IT IS AS IF I AM CONSUMED BY IT AND MY DESPERATION ...........COS SOME OF THE STORIES ARE SO FUNNY ACTUALLY, AND IT DEFIES ME HOW I WAS STUPID ENOUGH TO EVEN GET TO MEET ONE SUCH GUY........NO LET ME GO FURTHER, HOW STUPID I WAS TO BUY A PLANE TICKET AND GO HALF WAY ROUND THE WORLD, THEN UPGRADE TO A JUNIOR SUITE BECAUSE I WANTED TO IMPRESS HIM ( YES I PAID FOR MYSELF) ONLY TO REALISE WHY HE HAD SUCH A LONG WISPY MOUSTACHE AND EVERYTIME HE LAUGHED ON CAM HE COVERED HIS MOUTH) ..............HE HAD NO TEETH.......I JUST CANNOT HELP TELLING STORIES LIKE THAT.....BUT REALLY ALL IT DOES IS SHOW HOW DUMB AND EASILY DECEIVED I CAN BE, SO SUPER CAUTIOUS NOW. BY THE WAY I WAS SMART ENOUGH TO CHECK OUT HIS CREDENTIALS FIRST AND HE WAS A DOCTOR IN A HOSPITAL ......SEE I NEVER WOULD HAVE IMAGINED IT COULD BE POSSIBLE FOR A DOCTOR TO HAVE NO TEETH , COULD YOU ?? JUST GOES TO SHOW WHAT YOU NEED TO CHECK UP ON WITH PEOPLE. STILL I DONT REGRET THE MONEY SPENT IT MAKES FOR A GOOD LAUGH, MAYBE THE JOKES ON ME THOUGH ?? SASKIA
COULD THAT BE THE PROBLEM THOUGH DO YOU THINK? THAT I LOOK PRETTY, ?? SHOULD I TAME THE LOOK DOWN A BIT SO MEN CAN THINK I CAN BE TAKEN CAMPING AND FISHING AND TO THE FOOTBALL? HELP ME HERE , I APPRECIATE YOUR HONEST FEED BACK. ALL PERSPECTIVES ARE WELCOME. I NEED TO KNOW .....SASKIA
WELL , ID NEED TO PUBLISH A BOOK TO TELL YOU ABOUT MY DATING EXPERIENCES......BECAUSE I HAVE HAD QUITE A FEW........BUT ITS LIKE WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE ON THE NET YOU FORM A DREAM ABOUT THE POSSIBILITY OF WHAT MIGHT BE, AROUND EVERY CORNER IS A NEW GUY AND YOU ARE HOPING HE LOOKS CLEAN , HAS NO HAIR GROWING OUT HIS NOSE OR EARS, YOU HOPE HE HAS ALL HIS TEETH , AND THEY ARE CLEAN , THIS MEANS HE TAKES CARE OF HIMSELF, WHEN YOU ARE OLDER ALL THESE THINGS MATTER, YOU HOPE HE IS TOTALLY INTERESTED IN YOU, AND WILL LISTEN TO YOU, YOU HOPE HE WONT CUT YOU OFF EVERYTIME YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH TO SAY SOMETHING, YOU WANT HIM TO DRESS WELL , TELLING YOU HE HAS A LITTLE STYLE AND CAN LOOK GOOD BESIDE YOU, YOU WANT HIM TO SHOW HE HAS MANNERS, AND REALISES THAT WILL IMPRESS YOU .....ALL THESE THINGS TELL US OF WHERE THE PERSON COMES FROM, POSSIBLY HOW HE WAS RAISED AND OFFERS INDICATIONS ABOUT WHERE HIS MIND IS AT, EVERYTHING A PERSON DOES OR SAYS WHEN HE/SHE MEETS SOMEONE NEW IS A SIGN , IT IS ALL SIGNS. WE GROW OLDER AND MORE DISCERNING, WE KNOW MORE AND MORE WHAT WE WANT AND WHAT IS RIGHT FOR US, AND SOMETIMES WE ACCEPT AND TOLERATE SOMETHING IN A PERSON BECAUSE SOMETHING ELSE OUTSHINES THAT DEFECT.WE HAVE ALSO LEARNT THROUGH LIFE EXPERIENCE WHAT WE CANNOT ABIDE AND WILL NOT TOLERATE AND ACCEPT ....... BUT ESSENTIALLY WE SHOULD ALL KNOW WHAT WE NEED FOR OURSELVES. AND AIM FOR IT..........SOME OF US CANNOT COMPROMISE ON CERTAIN ISSUES, I HIT THE JACKPOT WITH MY FIRST HUSBAND OF 26 YEARS , AND THEN HE DIED. THE SEARCH CONTINUES.......THANKYOU FOR YOUR INTEREST AND COMMENTS I APPRECIATE THEM , AND YOUR CANDOUR.....SASKIA
THANKS DARREN FOR THE POSITIVE ......... AND THE LAST COMMENT ABOUT THE THREAD , SEE EVEN THAT IS A GOOD HELP TO ME.........DARREN DO YOU THINK I AM WEARING TOO MUCH MAKEUP OR LOOK LIKE I AM HIGH MAINTENANCE? OR ARE YOU A MAN WHO CAN APPRECIATE A WOMAN WHO CAN LOOK GOOD? HELP ME HERE AND YOUR HONESTY IS APPRECIATED .. SASKIA
YES GOOD POINT..............AND THANKYOU FOR THE FEEDBACK I APPRECIATE IT..........REALLY I DO. SO HELP ME HERE ....SHOULD I SEEM LESS INTELLIGENT , ?? COS IM TRYING TO ATTRACT INTELLIGENCE.........!! IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN......OK I AM WAITING FOR FURTHER ADVICE FROM YOU , AND THANYOU IN ADVANCE FOR THE HELP. SASKIA
OK WELL THATS GOOD YOU SEE THAT , AND I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT............GOOD POINT ACTUALLY..................AND ALL I WANT TO DO IS LOOK PRETTY , FRESH , AND AS IF I CAN LOOK GOOD , FOR AN OLD BIRD..........AND FUNNILY ENOUGH I DO LOVE CAMPING.AND BACKPACKING, AND TRAIN TRIPS, AND FISHING.....I AM IN BOTH WORLDS ACTUALLY.......BUT IF I PUT MY PICS OF ME DOWN ON THE FARM IN MY WELLIES, OR GUMBOOTS AS THEY CALL THEM WHERE I COME FROM , I WONDER WHAT RESPONSE ILL GET........HELL I AM GOING TO TRY IT, SEE WHAT HAPPENS.......I DO HAVE SOME VERY ROUGH PICS OF ME......( DONT WE ALL) COULD BE AN INTERESTING SOCIAL EXPERIMENT.....................I DO THANK YOU FOR YOUR IDEAS , IT IS JUST WHAT I NEED A PERSPECTIVE THROUGH SOMEONE ELSES EYES............................................. SASKIA.....................
After 6 years on dating sites, I am still single. Yes I have those who chase me and have met many men. But how do I attract who I want ? Tell me what I am doing wrong please. has anyone any ideas. I am open to any criticism , in fact thats what I want.your comments ....... I need to change something here . I appreciate it guys, and dont worry you can be brutal , i wont get offended,,,,,,I am sure people see things I do not but might normally be too polite to tell me. Saskia
you just gotta harden up love........and dont waste time on people or get upset if they dump you like a hot potato. dont be desperate , shes out of there , so dont worry about those who dont want you, just accept it and move on.......we all have our requirements, if you dont fit in with someone then thats ok plenty more to choose from.People here dont need to be polite because you are not face to face , it seems as if the same rules dont apply here, adapt your way of thinking to the cyber world..it is not the real world, we are all hiding, including you in spite of what you think of yourself , we are all hiding. saskia have a good day.
you just gotta harden up love........and dont waste time on people or get upset if they dump you like a hot potato. dont be desperate , shes out of there , so dont worry about those who dont want you, just accept it and move on.......we all have our requirements, if you dont fit in with someone then thats ok plenty more to choose from.People here dont need to be polite because you are not face to face , it seems as if the same rules dont apply here, adapt your way of thinking to the cyber world..it is not the real world, we are all hiding, including you in spite of what you think of yourself , we are all hiding. saskia have a good day.
you just gotta harden up love........and dont waste time on people or get upset if they dump you like a hot potato. dont be desperate , shes out of there , so dont worry about those who dont want you, just accept it and move on.......we all have our requirements, if you dont fit in with someone then thats ok plenty more to choose from.People here dont need to be polite because you are not face to face , it seems as if the same rules dont apply here, adapt your way of thinking to the cyber world..it is not the real world, we are all hiding, including you in spite of what you think of yourself , we are all hiding. saskia have a good day.
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RE: What should a BF/GF do when his partner is a Big lier ! and cant Gave up lying on several Request?
move on, stop wasting your own time ...........there are plenty out there who do not lie . go and get one of those ladies who values your friendship and love.