I don't think it takes any special kind gestures, although those don't hurt and they do show respect. I think there comes a time when you look at each other and nothing needs to be said or done. You just make eye contact and there it is. It's almost like magic, nobody has the difinitive answer. I think if there was an answer, love would not exist.
Welcome to CS land. Say whatever you feel like saying. You are free to voice your opinion on any thread! You will find out very soon that there are some very nice people, especially the ones above me!
Paws, I don't know you very well but I think you know that I think very highly of you. You are a man of great wisdom and I would never hesitate to come to you for an answer.
If you do not know how to submit a picture just ask on these threads and someone will tell you how. I had to ask and got tons of advice as there are very nice people here. That would also help to introduce yourself. People by nature are attracted first by what they see and guys being awful pigs, well, do the math. And by the way, I do read ALL of the profiles and return ALL flowers and messages NO MATTER WHO THEY ARE. To me it is a matter of politeness.
RE: LETS SEE SOME FINE LOOKING THINGS
I don't believe you. You must show us!