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Jun 1, 2006 11:42 AM CST i need advice
showme68
showme68showme68MN, Minnesota USA28 Threads 49 Posts
why men don't write back ???????????????confused confused
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Jun 1, 2006 11:49 AM CST i need advice
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
1) men are visual, more so than a woman as a rule, a pic would help you greatly.

2) whatever you write isnt attracting them, enticing them to write back

3) you just havent written to the right one yet

4) post a pic

5) post a pic

6) post a pic
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Jun 1, 2006 11:50 AM CST i need advice
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
oh and


7) post on the forums and let people get to know you, helps a lot and might get past the no pic initially if someone likes what you have to say

8) post a pic
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Jun 1, 2006 11:51 AM CST i need advice
animica
animicaanimicaGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden21 Threads 641 Posts
post a pic

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Jun 1, 2006 11:52 AM CST i need advice
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing get your own post LOL
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Jun 1, 2006 11:53 AM CST i need advice
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
I agree a picture is nice. Do some searches again and send more emails and flowers. Post to the forums.

If they do not respond they generally have a reason, not interested, already seeing someone, out of town.......
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Jun 1, 2006 11:53 AM CST i need advice
portlandgirl
portlandgirlportlandgirlnot Oregon, Oregon USA8 Threads 290 Posts
put up a pic and you will get maleprofessor
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Jun 1, 2006 11:55 AM CST i need advice
animica
animicaanimicaGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden21 Threads 641 Posts
Hey! Threads are open to anyone aren't they, Miss "all high and mighty"? LOL
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Jun 1, 2006 11:56 AM CST i need advice
animica
animicaanimicaGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden21 Threads 641 Posts
did you write "male" intentionally? cause if you did, that was funnyprofessor
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Jun 1, 2006 11:56 AM CST i need advice
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
Pics baby....pics....gotta have 'em......head banger
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Jun 1, 2006 12:03 PM CST i need advice
animica
animicaanimicaGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden21 Threads 641 Posts
Well, nipwit - I'd rather be a bossy moo than a..... naaaaaw, I can't do this, Kris! hug
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Jun 1, 2006 12:04 PM CST i need advice
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
awwwwww love ya too!hug hug
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Jun 1, 2006 12:18 PM CST i need advice
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Pictures definitely help .... truthfully I think that most men do not read the profile (from the letters I get sometimes and the feedback that I've read from others).... so take some pictures and post them!!!

As well how many letters have you written??? One or two or are you talking 100's .... patience is a virtue ..... practice it and don't lose heart because there are lots of potential mates out there. As well don't go overboard .... just make it light and funny ... give them some compliments.... but most importantly be truthful and be yourself.

Have fun and good luck!!!
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Jun 1, 2006 12:28 PM CST i need advice
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
I do so read the profiles....but I gotta see a pic first. If there is nothing in the pic that compels me I am not going to answer an e-mail. That may be shallow, but that is the truth.head banger
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Jun 1, 2006 12:34 PM CST i need advice
I gotta agree with him up there. We are a visual breed. Nothing attracts us like a nice picture.

Try to take it with a camera and not a mobile phone. It does help,and blue is not an attractive shade. This means the phone has not taken in enough light.

Try and put something personal in the mail. Just to prove that you have not written one and copied it. It shows you have taken the effort.

If I have ever recd any mail from anyone (male or female) I always return a note saying thanks for the note, however, I am either not interested or what ever.

I find it incredibly rude that people do not have the common decency to return a note, when you have taken the time and effort to write something.

... and above all just remember, we are just as committed to finding someone as you are, its just we need a little help help

A picture normally does it cheering
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Jun 1, 2006 2:21 PM CST i need advice
nobodyzfool
nobodyzfoolnobodyzfoolglendale, USA20 Threads 414 Posts
If you do not know how to submit a picture just ask on these threads and someone will tell you how. I had to ask and got tons of advice as there are very nice people here. That would also help to introduce yourself. People by nature are attracted first by what they see and guys being awful pigs, well, do the math. And by the way, I do read ALL of the profiles and return ALL flowers and messages NO MATTER WHO THEY ARE. To me it is a matter of politeness.
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Aug 11, 2006 11:41 AM CST i need advice
FrankyMarvel
FrankyMarvelFrankyMarvelSiegen, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany2 Threads 3 Posts
I agree with all
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