most of the woman i have encountered that have kids say they are not looking for a father figure which is understandable I wouldn't even try to be there father they have one, however I would except them with no problem at all. is it possible woman think that there wouldn't be enough time to spend with them and her ? however I have noticed when having conversations with woman and i inform them I have kids which I visit in Niagara falls on a regular basis the women are a litle erked due to my kids being with there mother, I wonder if the women paint a picture of ( why bother get close because of the chance of return to the ex, which isn't going to happen) the trust is gone due to her having an affair. so I'm just confused in the kids no kids thing when dating.
Sorry I should have been more clear as to the length of time being separated/ divorced I was asking in regards as to it being "not recently" separated/ divorced, sorry for any confusion
Here's a question for the ladies......Why do woman make reference to "just like most men" or have other thoughts about men, after knowing the man is divorced/separated. Why the instant label of "waste of time"?
RE: When's Your B-Day
nov 9 1964 Go scorpio's Go