What women say they want is very different from what they really want (which I truely have no idea).
All my life I have heard from my female friends, clients and students, of how they want a man who is communicative and honest. I consider myself to be one of those type of men. But my experience tells me that when women get a man like this, they have no idea how to respond or relate to him (me).
I thinks it's a case of, "having is not the same as wanting"... or maybe it's just easier to complain....
The real cost is time. Trying to find lonely men and women must be extremely difficult. I mean, I don't know so many outside of 3 or 4 thousand. And you??
I had the same experience with a woman and her team in Nigeria. I lost about $700. I did learn a lesson and will never be tricked by "pseudo" love again. We must use our brains and intuition too and not just our hopes and desires.
Is your friend curious or is she telling you what to do? If she is curious, and she does not respect your boundaries, then turn the tables on her. Ask why she is asking. She maybe has some sort of experience, maybe with the father, and wants to let it out....
If all else fails... find a new friend that can respect you (just like you would if you had a man who did this sort of thing)
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RE: What does a women want ?
What women say they want is very different from what they really want (which I truely have no idea).All my life I have heard from my female friends, clients and students, of how they want a man who is communicative and honest. I consider myself to be one of those type of men. But my experience tells me that when women get a man like this, they have no idea how to respond or relate to him (me).
I thinks it's a case of, "having is not the same as wanting"... or maybe it's just easier to complain....