For Crying out loud!!! (20)
Hey Katine, if you want to vent......GIVER! As for the friend, if she doesn't take a simple back off, tel lher to piss off out of your business in a way that she'll get the message loud and clear! I do realize, that's really not a nice thing to do, but for the sake of your sanity, do it! ;-) good to see you again.
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get some valium or buy a gun, either works.jr
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think i know the feeling only too well . my ex use to nag me all day . till i got fed up of it ..
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If I were to vent today
I'd blow the forum away
so instead of that
I'll tip my hat
and calmly be on my way
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If I were to vent today
I'd blow the forum away
so instead of that
I'll tip my hat
and calmly be on my way
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the answer is simple and getting mad or upset is not the answer.the answer is simple but you are the one who has to choose to do it.
tell them 1 more time it is not their business and please stop asking you about it,if they keep doing it than tell them to stop messing with you and leave you alone.
who we let in our lives are the people we chose to let in,no one can make us let them in our lives,we have to let them in.
if there is someone who you do not want in your life,the answer is simple tell them to stay out of your life and leave you alone.
if you keep getting upset what good is it doing you,no good at all,if you keep getting upset than 1 day you might have a heart attack than where will you be.
is it honestly really worth all the stress your friend is causing you.if it is not worth it than tell them to leave you alone and stay out of your business
tell them 1 more time it is not their business and please stop asking you about it,if they keep doing it than tell them to stop messing with you and leave you alone.
who we let in our lives are the people we chose to let in,no one can make us let them in our lives,we have to let them in.
if there is someone who you do not want in your life,the answer is simple tell them to stay out of your life and leave you alone.
if you keep getting upset what good is it doing you,no good at all,if you keep getting upset than 1 day you might have a heart attack than where will you be.
is it honestly really worth all the stress your friend is causing you.if it is not worth it than tell them to leave you alone and stay out of your business
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The Z man said it....
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tell her to go piss up a rope..
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Do things to calm yourself down and be relaxed and to reduce stress. All that is harmful to you and to your children. You speak up and do it calmly but firmily and mean it. Show your friend that you mean what you say, and you are say what you mean. If you say you're going to do something, then do it. Like if it comes to the point that you really think she needs to back off and leave you alone for good, and when you say that, you need to mean it and act on it or else this friend you are speaking of will only keep doing what she is doing and will not take you seriously.
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lmao.................hehe
Katine hang in there sweetie......
Katine hang in there sweetie......
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Tracy,
tell her to leave you alone if you want her to know you will tell her or tell her your daughters father is gay maybe she'll leave you alon(nothing againt gays)
tell her to leave you alone if you want her to know you will tell her or tell her your daughters father is gay maybe she'll leave you alon(nothing againt gays)
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Katine, I know what you're sayin, I have a friend almost exactly as yours. She is overly opinionated, and has no problems tellin you what to do, and how to do it. There were times I felt like sayin the hell with it, who needs a friend like her, But she has many good qualities that made me stay her friend. These days I hardly let her piss me off, cause I know how she is, and Ive accepted it. I dont say much, unless she really oversteps her boundries. Venting is a good thing, and this seems a perfect place to do it, keeps you calm and keeps you outta jail......lol
Good luck with your friend
Monica
Good luck with your friend
Monica
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yeah some people just don't know when to leave people to do their own thing. just tell her enough is enough leave me alone.
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Tracy you sent to set some clear boundaries with this girl. You need to be firm with her to tell her that you don't not want to discuss the matter with her..... if and when you may seek advice YOU will ask for it.
You also need to be clear with her what you actions will be if she is not willing to respect your boundaries.
Goodluck
You also need to be clear with her what you actions will be if she is not willing to respect your boundaries.
Goodluck
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Tracy
If it is truly your LAST nerve Don't let HER have it You're gunna need it if you have a man and a child with that man.
Let her go if she's willin to leave you cryin out loud.
Keep that AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
V.
If it is truly your LAST nerve Don't let HER have it You're gunna need it if you have a man and a child with that man.
Let her go if she's willin to leave you cryin out loud.
Keep that AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
V.
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Is your friend curious or is she telling you what to do? If she is curious, and she does not respect your boundaries, then turn the tables on her. Ask why she is asking. She maybe has some sort of experience, maybe with the father, and wants to let it out....
If all else fails... find a new friend that can respect you (just like you would if you had a man who did this sort of thing)
If all else fails... find a new friend that can respect you (just like you would if you had a man who did this sort of thing)
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TRACY,in short tell her to mind her own business,and what goes on in her backyard.
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My advice, is this put a bounty out onher!!!
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When you love, there's no such thing as loving a little, but loving all the way. Love may not ask you to give up your life, but it will require lots of sacrifices
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really good advise to give a grown woman when she needs to vent....Not so much...lol
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What is it with people who just can NOT mind their own god for saken business!?!?
I have this friend whom honestly is getting on my last nerves. She keeps asking me personal info regarding me and my daughters father. I keep telling her its none of her business and my concerns only. But she keeps prying and prying and telling me how I should handle things. For crying out loud. I am a freaking grown woman who knows what I am doing.
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!
Thanks for letting me get it off of my chest. Now you can go back to your regular programmed scheduling LOL
Tracy who is about to pop a nerve!