let my ex and I ended it feb 9 2005, I recently started liking thiasone girl at work, but she finaly came out and said no, it took her like a month to do so.
The way I see it though she had a great personality and she was gorgous but she does certain things I cant stand so its better this way.
I have not even done anything with this girl outside of work. It makes things a little easier, but still you know it sucks.
I am not ready to date any one right now. However I do want to find some one to get to know, and possible be with later.
I found this almost perfect girl and last night she finaly just came out an said no. It sucks because I got her a birthday gift too. It does not really matter because I like getting people stuff, and I am still giving it to her when it comes in.
I find it really hard to find people so thats why I am trying this place out.
I dont find the temp that bad ever, I love the heat and the cold.
HOwver its been colder int he kitchen where I work then outside a few times already. however its been cool here for a while now.
I have alergies and burn easy so i dont really go out during the day, plus I work a tonne now and they are all night shifts so during the day I just eat and sleep and get ready for work.
I rarely have time for any thing now, it kinda sucks. HOwever I spent a week at a friends now. I go home in half an hour actualy.
My friend took two weeks off work so I have to fill in for him. so yeah I am quite over worked. At least it gives me stuff to do and money.
Anyways as far as where I havent really gone on dates so I have no experience with this type of thing.
However I guess I would like to just have a stay at home night, maybe I'd cook some chinese food, or maybe even a roast orange glazed chicken or something. (I love to cook) then maybe just relax on the couch and watch a movie or go see a movie even.
Heh I know what you mean.. I never thought Id do this either.
Me being the type of guy I am though I cant find people in person. I have only liked three girls enough to try and ask them out. The first I lost my chance, the second her and I dated for almost four years, the last girl had said she was confused and so I though well she just needs time and now last night she said no. So its a major let down, but hey she does crap I dont like so its probably for the best.
I am also very shy when it comes to meeting people offline and it takes time for me to warm up but when I do I talk more then I type, but I also listen just as much too.
RE: I AM CHANGING SIDES!!!
if you want to change sides, thats fine, however running from a problem in never the right thing to do.I personaly never give up and nor should any one else. If you always gave up nothing would be done and you would be miserable.