Esox88 Forum Posts (2)

RE: Please help me to understand

Now for the bad news...you are holding onto unworthiness.

This errodes self confidence and self repect.

The best way to regain self confidence is to do something you are afraid to do. Give a public speech, run a 5k race, go sailing, parachuting, work in a soup kitchen.

For loss of self respect set up some life goals. Write a list of some general ways you want your relationships to be-- and not with just men, with people in general. Stop judging yourself about every little mistake you've made--everyone makes mistakes.

RE: No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least

There is something in what you say Chris...except many ladies are not hunting they are shopping. IMHO they are all living the dream of the knight in shinning armor to come rescue them.

This constant demand for a man with confidence is amusing. Exactly what is this confidence you seek ladies? And how much is enough?