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Oct 14, 2011 4:03 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
natalyany1
natalyany1natalyany1Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1 Threads 2 Posts
I find that there are many good-looking and self-confident guys out there. Though no one seems to be making a step towards either getting to know the person, or at least to maintain good realtionship for a long time. We all hope to find someone, but withough an effort from the male side, it is almost impossible. It is not right when the woman is trying hard, gentleman should always be a gentleman, despite the countries, borders and language differences. Dear men, be more determined. It was valued throught the years in the majority of culetures. Show ladies that you still have it and you'll find the right one that will love you forever. Isn't it what we are all looking for, even if some are confused at the moment
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Oct 14, 2011 10:58 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
natalyany1: I find that there are many good-looking and self-confident guys out there. Though no one seems to be making a step towards either getting to know the person, or at least to maintain good realtionship for a long time. We all hope to find someone, but withough an effort from the male side, it is almost impossible. It is not right when the woman is trying hard, gentleman should always be a gentleman, despite the countries, borders and language differences. Dear men, be more determined. It was valued throught the years in the majority of culetures. Show ladies that you still have it and you'll find the right one that will love you forever. Isn't it what we are all looking for, even if some are confused at the moment



God, you are naive. I've yet to meet one woman in the flesh that actually cares...they really do not, so whatever effort one put in, it goes for nothing. sigh
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Oct 14, 2011 11:04 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
solitare: God, you are naive. I've yet to meet one woman in the flesh that actually cares...they really do not, so whatever effort one put in, it goes for nothing.


cares about what?

IDK I would love to care.........
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Oct 15, 2011 1:29 AM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
There are hundreds of men and women that care,and would love to be in a loving,caring relationship.Sometimes we have to be honest with ourselves,and stop looking for excuses,and accept the other person didnt fancy us enough to take the relationship any further.Thats life,we cant always have what WE want.
The OP is only a young lady,and many men around that age are not as mentally mature as the ladies,and are still running around being big kids.That what many young men do.
I am sure that one day,a real gentleman will come along.bouquet
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Oct 15, 2011 2:48 AM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Coffee or a drink???When,where,and which country. When ready just call.laugh
natalyany1: I find that there are many good-looking and self-confident guys out there. Though no one seems to be making a step towards either getting to know the person, or at least to maintain good realtionship for a long time. We all hope to find someone, but withough an effort from the male side, it is almost impossible. It is not right when the woman is trying hard, gentleman should always be a gentleman, despite the countries, borders and language differences. Dear men, be more determined. It was valued throught the years in the majority of culetures. Show ladies that you still have it and you'll find the right one that will love you forever. Isn't it what we are all looking for, even if some are confused at the moment
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Oct 15, 2011 3:17 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
natalyany1: I find that there are many good-looking and self-confident guys out there. Though no one seems to be making a step towards either getting to know the person, or at least to maintain good realtionship for a long time. We all hope to find someone, but withough an effort from the male side, it is almost impossible. It is not right when the woman is trying hard, gentleman should always be a gentleman, despite the countries, borders and language differences. Dear men, be more determined. It was valued throught the years in the majority of culetures. Show ladies that you still have it and you'll find the right one that will love you forever. Isn't it what we are all looking for, even if some are confused at the moment


Ah, they are lazy, spoiled mummies boys! They want woman with home delivery, and they would ask you to buy them food and beer on your way! laugh
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Oct 15, 2011 3:20 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
joyaepace: Ah, they are lazy, spoiled mummies boys except Ali! They want woman with home delivery, and they would ask you to buy them food and beer on your way!
grin laugh
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Oct 15, 2011 3:28 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
i find it hard to maintain a healthy rappore becoz my wife left me deep in debt and in foreclosure...my finances are ruined and i do not feel comfotable dragging any female into my pit...i think i am relatively strong but the finances are killing me....i cant even began to think about dating when my welfare is in dire straits...chats all i can do without creating harm....i know it sounds selfish but people have problems everywheres..i find mine difficult to share...it seems like i would be a burden from the onset...noone needs that..i would not...i seek forever but cant find one that wants to wait on a shelf really..lol well not an american girl...that brings us back to the loyal asian women....
but would you agree i need to finish what dramatizes me b4 getting serious?
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Oct 15, 2011 3:47 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Roles have change,men they hunt less now days,and women getting in the habit of hunting more often.laugh
joyaepace: Ah, they are lazy, spoiled mummies boys! They want woman with home delivery, and they would ask you to buy them food and beer on your way!
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Oct 15, 2011 10:12 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
Esox88
Esox88Esox88Canton, Michigan USA2 Posts
chris27292729: Roles have change,men they hunt less now days,and women getting in the habit of hunting more often.


There is something in what you say Chris...except many ladies are not hunting they are shopping. IMHO they are all living the dream of the knight in shinning armor to come rescue them.

This constant demand for a man with confidence is amusing. Exactly what is this confidence you seek ladies? And how much is enough?
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Oct 16, 2011 10:52 AM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Their ideal dream is a knight in shinning armor with a walletful confidence.laugh laugh laugh
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Oct 16, 2011 11:06 AM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
solitare: God, you are naive. I've yet to meet one woman in the flesh that actually cares...they really do not, so whatever effort one put in, it goes for nothing.


Hi Sol!!!!

I thought you'd been happily married ... so obviously she was in the flesh and cared ... I remember reading a post of your describing a wonderful relationship.

You only need to meet ONE that does!!!! Till then it's not ALL for nothing it's the leading up to that moment!!!! wine

hug
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Oct 16, 2011 11:11 AM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
marss: i find it hard to maintain a healthy rappore becoz my wife left me deep in debt and in foreclosure...my finances are ruined and i do not feel comfotable dragging any female into my pit...i think i am relatively strong but the finances are killing me....i cant even began to think about dating when my welfare is in dire straits...chats all i can do without creating harm....i know it sounds selfish but people have problems everywheres..i find mine difficult to share...it seems like i would be a burden from the onset...noone needs that..i would not...i seek forever but cant find one that wants to wait on a shelf really..lol well not an american girl...that brings us back to the loyal asian women....
but would you agree i need to finish what dramatizes me b4 getting serious?


Yep (emotionally)!!!

But I can't see why you can't go out on dates. You assets (or lack of) wouldn't be linked and there are many free things that can be enjoyed with a date. Home made picnics are cheap to prepare!!!
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Oct 16, 2011 11:13 AM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Esox88: There is something in what you say Chris...except many ladies are not hunting they are shopping. IMHO they are all living the dream of the knight in shinning armor to come rescue them.

This constant demand for a man with confidence is amusing. Exactly what is this confidence you seek ladies? And how much is enough?


Sometimes I wonder if the USA and Europe are both on the same planet!!!
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Oct 16, 2011 11:14 AM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
Esox88: There is something in what you say Chris...except many ladies are not hunting they are shopping. IMHO they are all living the dream of the knight in shinning armor to come rescue them.

This constant demand for a man with confidence is amusing. Exactly what is this confidence you seek ladies? And how much is enough?


probably very simply the confidence to make a first move

a lot of women prefer that - even the ones who DO make the first move prefer that the man somehow makes it look like he did

good luck with that answerlaugh
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Oct 16, 2011 12:21 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
shinwario
shinwarioshinwarioLAHORE, Punjab Pakistan9 Threads 30 Posts
natalyany1: I find that there are many good-looking and self-confident guys out there. Though no one seems to be making a step towards either getting to know the person, or at least to maintain good realtionship for a long time. We all hope to find someone, but withough an effort from the male side, it is almost impossible. It is not right when the woman is trying hard, gentleman should always be a gentleman, despite the countries, borders and language differences. Dear men, be more determined. It was valued throught the years in the majority of culetures. Show ladies that you still have it and you'll find the right one that will love you forever. Isn't it what we are all looking for, even if some are confused at the moment

lets go
no confusion lets chat to know each other more
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Oct 16, 2011 12:23 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
shinwario
shinwarioshinwarioLAHORE, Punjab Pakistan9 Threads 30 Posts
natalyany1: I find that there are many good-looking and self-confident guys out there. Though no one seems to be making a step towards either getting to know the person, or at least to maintain good realtionship for a long time. We all hope to find someone, but withough an effort from the male side, it is almost impossible. It is not right when the woman is trying hard, gentleman should always be a gentleman, despite the countries, borders and language differences. Dear men, be more determined. It was valued throught the years in the majority of culetures. Show ladies that you still have it and you'll find the right one that will love you forever. Isn't it what we are all looking for, even if some are confused at the moment

relationship for life time, not for longtime
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Oct 19, 2011 8:05 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
natalyany1
natalyany1natalyany1Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1 Threads 2 Posts
That's a very respectable excuse for not getting serious and creating "the harm", though still keep trying and looking. I wish you the best of luck with dealing with your difficult financial situation! Hope you resolve it soon and become a happy loving person!
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Oct 19, 2011 10:08 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Speak for yourself sista...I have no problem with it talk to hand
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Oct 19, 2011 10:16 PM CST No one is willing to take afirst step..Or to try at least
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
EagleWoman: Sometimes I wonder if the USA and Europe are both on the same planet!!!


kiss











wine



"I think that you don't know anybody that could be so bad, but if you did you'd be wonderin' where I'm at... Well I'll be home when tomorrow mornin' comes.." ~Jack Johnson - Tomorrow Morning rose in teeth
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