If you love someone and are especially MARRIED to them.... lie about having money stashed away for your safety and future in case they ever leave you because otherwise you won't survive and THAT is the number one priority in your life over ANYONE else even a husband. NEVER lying is a fantasy and doesn't exist if you're smart, especially about the above. Don't be stupid, ladies. This has never been my personal experience or situation because I never have NOR want to marry, but have heard of everyone else's horror stories! Telling the truth about anything else doesn't matter according to your own discretion. Financial survival and security is ALWAYS #1.
I just read your profile, and don't see an ''edit'' button to add something to my post above. It's NOT that women are ''looking for money'' [as you imply in your profile], but it's nice when a man is employed, even if a woman has her OWN money, a man who is working and has a job is kinda mandatory in this world, let's face it and be honest. What do you do, and why aren't you working? You don't explain that. Just being honest and trying to help zero in on what the problem might be that you're complaining about. How would you support a woman if it got serious, and you don't have a job? Maybe I should keep my mouth shut about what's not my busiess, but you asked for help and trying to give some insight. Women are not goldiggers if requiring a man to at least be employed. Maybe you have a good reason for not working, but you didn't explain.
Not everyone is eachother's type there are many factors. Relationships don't just ''happen'' instantly, unless you want ANY woman just to have a mate. life isn't like that for most people. Out of 100's of thousands of people we meet thru our lifetime, how MANY turn into a relationship OR even a 'date'. It's no different on here.
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RE: WHEN WOULD YOU LIE TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE? (HONESTY PLEASE)
If you love someone and are especially MARRIED to them.... lie about having money stashed away for your safety and future in case they ever leave you because otherwise you won't survive and THAT is the number one priority in your life over ANYONE else even a husband. NEVER lying is a fantasy and doesn't exist if you're smart, especially about the above. Don't be stupid, ladies. This has never been my personal experience or situation because I never have NOR want to marry, but have heard of everyone else's horror stories! Telling the truth about anything else doesn't matter according to your own discretion. Financial survival and security is ALWAYS #1.