Not all of us X generation's are worthless. I believe my morals to be old fashioned. The thing that bothers me most about the divorce is that I believe that marriage should last a lifetime. I believe to be an adult you must show honesty, integraty, responsibility, and a good work ethic. The rest are just overgrown children
It is the getting attached thing that bothers me most. The girls and I have spent more time around some of my single buddies in the last year. The girls ask all kinds of questions and act like they lost a best friend when one of them switches up.
Alright so lets say I decide to keep my dating under the radar. I find someone who has children also. Now they want to bring me into there childrens life. I love kids and can have lots of fun with them but how is this going to go over. No you can't play with my kids but I will play with yours. I don't know I am just thinking out loud.
If your old fashion I guess I am too. As far as overnight stays that will never happen in front of the girls. Unless I was to get married again (not likely).
I am just now ready to maybee start dating. I would like to see where other views about dating and you children. I have two daughters. ages 12 and 7. I don't think that at those ages I should be dragging women in and out of there lives. At the same time I spend a lot of time with my children. How do some of you handle it?
I don't care for dancing my self. My experiance has been either I am with someone and other guys are trying to push and grope on. That irritates me and ruins the night. If I go with the (just friends)crowd I wind as the creep blocker and once again just irritated at the end of the night.
So How do I get back in this dating scene. Granted I have just gotten started with this online stuff and it seems to make sense for sombody like me. I get to see a little bit of thier pesonality before I talk to them.
Hey every body. I was married for 8 years and with her for about 3 1/2 before that. That takes me back to 19. It was easy then from what I remember. Had no real responsibilities, had a whole school full of women to date. I am way out of the loop on this dating crap. On top of that I am kinda shy I think. My thing is that I don't care to meet most people I run across on a daily bases. Why? I don't know realy but it seems like a waste of time to make nice nice with everybody I see. I have enough friends to just hang out with. On the other side of this the people I have wasted the breath to get to know have told me I come off as very unaproachable at first. So here lies the problem. Oh yah I also tend to speak my mind. So do I need to change
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RE: Do Guys With Old Fashioned Values Still Exist?
Not all of us X generation's are worthless. I believe my morals to be old fashioned. The thing that bothers me most about the divorce is that I believe that marriage should last a lifetime. I believe to be an adult you must show honesty, integraty, responsibility, and a good work ethic. The rest are just overgrown children