There is a difference between a nice guy and a doormat. I am generaly nice and polite to all I meet. Very have ever walked all over me and I asure you they don't do it twice.
They are great. That one of the reasons I can be up so late tonight. Ran out of kid watchers with them being out of school all week so I took a few days off for a change. I don't know how to act, been getting more than 3 hours of sleep for a change.
Wow I almost forgot about this post. Been busy with work and getting ready for the holidays. Update..... I have been on like two dates since this post. They were with the ex both times. Neither amounted to anything either I am too damn picky or not ready yet not sure which. I am still unsure how I would ever bring a new friend into my girls life. As far as the evil step mother post that would never even get close to happening. My girls welfare and happyness if the first priority in my life.
I will have to say that I took a lot of good away from my past relationship. I have my girls first and for most. I have alot of my character was built in that relationship since I grew up for the most part with her 18-31. I was not all bad
I think a lot of people on here feel lost. I was with my X for close to 13 years. Never planed to be single and have to date again. It has been an experiance. I havn't met any body on her yet but have off some other sites. Beleave me I am lost when it comes to dating
I have 21 that are noticable. 3 from major surgery lower back, knee,and apendix. I can't remember how many broken bone I have had. Have you ever heard "Hey yall watch this!!" it was more than likly a story about me!
I was devestated nearly a year ago. Every day gets a little better. It made me look at what I held as priority's and even rearange a few. I know what I would like out of life and know how to get most of it. The only long lasting damage is my ability too trust. I hope one day I will find somebody to help me heal that wound as well. I don't think that I can heal that by myself.
Mine Are miner compared to most that I have read on here. But none the less I cna't seem to make the hurt go away. My wound was having my heart broke cathing my X in bed with anouther man after 12 years. Then ripped out two weeks later when I tried to talk it out and she said " I don't think I ever loved you and don't think I ever can." It has been a year and I still can hear those words like they were just said.
I have never been one to own 1 vehical. At present I own a 86 Chevy blazer, 90 Chevy corsica, and a 96 Dodge 3/4 ton 4X4 Cummins diesel. Befor the redneck jokes start they all are driven on regular basis and I didn't list any of the ones sitting on cinder blocks. It's hard to narrow it down to just one dream car but I guess it would be an new Dodge Mega Cab with a cummins.
RE: being to nice gets you no where
There is a difference between a nice guy and a doormat. I am generaly nice and polite to all I meet. Very have ever walked all over me and I asure you they don't do it twice.