I had a similiar problem with my X wife a couple years back.. We have been apart 4 years and some change but for 2 of those 4 years i played the back and forth game of "one week i want you, next week i dont". I can feel for your situation as its not exactly the same but it is close. Love does wierd things to people and no matter how much you get hurt sometimes you just cant get rid of the blinders that block the truth and you continue on thinking "everything will be ok". I found out its not and cheating is a deal breaker with me no matter if its a woman or a man, cheating is cheating.
Good luck and dont let her play the game with you. You have a right to see your kids as long as you keep your end up and she is the one who cheated and left, so shame on her not you. :)
Eh im just a skeptical person. I actually think its better that way. Cuz then if something good does happenm its even more of a surprise than if you were convinced you would find someone..lol
Shyness has always been my kryptonite.. Coupled with the feeling that most times the people i may be interested in are far beyond my league its not even funny. And im talking about them being much to attractive for me. Thats the main reason i may be interested in somebody but may hesitate to try. Same goes for real life. Dont think i have once ever appraoched a woman and outright asked. Fear of rejection is also a problem i have and looking like a fool, then getting all down on myself cuz i got rejected.
Id have to say for myself, confidence in my work, family life etc is fine... Confidence when it comes to trying to meet somebody... forget it not really existent.. Which is what makes it very hard.
Well used to be an 80's hair metal dude back then. I was around 15 or 16 ..lol
Now I listen to most anything. I still like rock,metal, some rap and R&B.. Im very diverse in the music I listen to.
Only thing im not much a fan of is country. I know alot of people are country fans and saying you hate country is sort of a big no no, especially with a good portion of the ladies. But I cant be anything but me ..lol
Well im very new here and just wanted to shout out a hello since it seems the thing to do to let people know you are alive.
So well hello!
lol
Anyway im 34, dad of 1 daughter 10 years old. Names John and im a fairly shy person. Its one reason im a little worried about trying this site mainly because of me being shy, I dont think i will get known very well. Posting in forums and things of that nature i tend to shy away from. Dont ask me why I guess its an esteem thing. I dont really like the picture I posted mostly cuz I dont think I photograph well but hey what can ya do huh?
Anyway im here like im sure most of the rest of you are and that is to see if there is somebody out there that is my "special match". Soulmate if you will. My profile itself is a pretty good description of me but like most people its only the tip of the iceberg that would be defined as "me".
Im from Maryland pretty close to the Washington DC area. Im honest to a fault most times, faithfull, not here to play games or have them played with me. Im here to meet honest people and maybe potentially spark something with somebody that could turn out to be what we are all looking for, love and happyness.
Good luck to you all and hello again. I will try my best not to be a wallflower, but i wont promise anything..
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RE: my ex
I had a similiar problem with my X wife a couple years back.. We have been apart 4 years and some change but for 2 of those 4 years i played the back and forth game of "one week i want you, next week i dont". I can feel for your situation as its not exactly the same but it is close. Love does wierd things to people and no matter how much you get hurt sometimes you just cant get rid of the blinders that block the truth and you continue on thinking "everything will be ok". I found out its not and cheating is a deal breaker with me no matter if its a woman or a man, cheating is cheating.Good luck and dont let her play the game with you. You have a right to see your kids as long as you keep your end up and she is the one who cheated and left, so shame on her not you. :)